Hadith 1174

حَدَّثَنَا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ عَرَفَةَ، حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيل بْنُ عَيَّاشٍ، عَنْ بَحِيرِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ، عَنْ خَالِدِ بْنِ مَعْدَانَ، عَنْ كَثِيرِ بْنِ مُرَّةَ الْحَضْرَمِيِّ، عَنْ مُعَاذِ بْنِ جَبَلٍ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، قَالَ : " لَا تُؤْذِي امْرَأَةٌ زَوْجَهَا فِي الدُّنْيَا إِلَّا قَالَتْ زَوْجَتُهُ مِنَ الْحُورِ الْعِينِ : لَا تُؤْذِيهِ قَاتَلَكِ اللَّهُ ، فَإِنَّمَا هُوَ عِنْدَكَ دَخِيلٌ يُوشِكُ أَنْ يُفَارِقَكِ إِلَيْنَا " . قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى : هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ غَرِيبٌ ، لَا نَعْرِفُهُ إِلَّا مِنْ هَذَا الْوَجْهِ ، وَرِوَايَةُ إِسْمَاعِيل بْنِ عَيَّاشٍ ، عَنِ الشَّامِيِّينَ أَصْلَحُ وَلَهُ ، عَنْ أَهْلِ الْحِجَازِ ، وَأَهْلِ الْعِرَاقِ مَنَاكِيرُ .
´Mu’adh bin Jabal narrated that The Prophet said:` “No woman annoys her husband in the world except that his wife among the Al-Huril-Ain said: ‘Do not annoy him, may Allah destroy you, he is only like a guest with, soon he will part from you for us.’”
Hadith Reference سنن ترمذي / كتاب الرضاع / 1174
Hadith Grading الألبانی: صحيح، ابن ماجة (2014)
Hadith Takhrij «سنن ابن ماجہ/النکاح 62 (2041) ، ( تحفة الأشراف : 11356) (صحیح)»
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Explanation & Benefits
Maulana Ataullah Sajid
Benefits and Issues:


Not obeying the lawful commands of the husband is a major sin.


If a woman unjustly troubles her husband, it causes distress to the houris of Paradise.


The literal meaning of "al-hur al-‘ayn" is women of fair complexion and beautiful eyes.
By this is meant those women whom Allah Ta‘ala has created in Paradise by His special power for the men of Paradise.
Righteous Muslim women, who live their lives in accordance with Allah’s commands in this world, will have a status in Paradise greater than that of these houris.


A woman and a man should spend the time of worldly life together in a good manner, taking care of each other’s emotions and needs.
One never knows when separation may occur.
Source: Commentary on Sunan Ibn Mājah by Mawlānā ‘Atā’ullāh Sājid, Page: 2014