Hadith 1085

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَمْرٍو السَّوَّاقُ الْبَلْخِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا حَاتِمُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيل، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ مُسْلِمِ بْنِ هُرْمُزَ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدٍ، وَسَعِيدٍ ابني عبيد، عَنْ أَبِي حَاتِمٍ الْمُزَنِيِّ، قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " إِذَا جَاءَكُمْ مَنْ تَرْضَوْنَ دِينَهُ وَخُلُقَهُ فَأَنْكِحُوهُ ، إِلَّا تَفْعَلُوا تَكُنْ فِتْنَةٌ فِي الْأَرْضِ وَفَسَادٌ " . قَالُوا : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَإِنْ كَانَ فِيهِ ، قَالَ : " إِذَا جَاءَكُمْ مَنْ تَرْضَوْنَ دِينَهُ وَخُلُقَهُ فَأَنْكِحُوهُ " ثَلَاثَ مَرَّاتٍ . قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى : هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ غَرِيبٌ ، وَأَبُو حَاتِمٍ الْمُزَنِيُّ لَهُ صُحْبَةٌ ، وَلَا نَعْرِفُ لَهُ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ غَيْرَ هَذَا الْحَدِيثِ .
´Abu Hatim Al-Muzani narrated that:` The Messenger of Allah said: "When someone whose religion and character you are pleased with comes to you then marry (her to) him. If you do not do so, then there will be turmoil (Fitnah) in the land and discord (Fasad). If you do not do so, then there will be turmoil (Fitnah) in the land and discord (Fasad)." They said: "O Messenger of Allah! What if there was something about him?" He said: "When someone whose religion and character you are pleased with comes to you then marry him." (And he (pbuh) said this) three times.
Hadith Reference سنن ترمذي / كتاب النكاح عن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم / 1085
Hadith Grading الألبانی: حسن بما قبله (1084)  |  زبیر علی زئی: (1085) إسناده ضعيف, عبدالله بن مسلم بن ھرمز: ضعيف (تق:3616) وقال العراقي : ضعفه الجمھور (تخريج الا حياء 251/1)
Hadith Takhrij «سنن ابی داود/ المراسل (حسن) (شواہد کی بنا پر یہ حدیث حسن ہے، ورنہ اس کے رواة ’’ محمد ‘‘ اور ’’ سعید ‘‘ دونوں مجہول ہیں، دیکھئے: اوپر کی حدیث ابی ہریرہ)»
Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Dr. Abdur Rahman Freywai
Explanation:
1:
The meaning is that if you marry only a person who possesses wealth or status, then many men will remain without wives and many women will remain without husbands, which will lead to the spread of adultery and immorality. The guardian (wali) will face shame and disgrace, which will become a cause for the outbreak of tribulation and corruption.

Note:
(Based on supporting evidence, this hadith is hasan (good).
Otherwise, both of its narrators, "Muhammad" and "Sa'id," are unknown (majhool).
See:
The above hadith of Abu Hurairah.)
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhi – Majlis ‘Ilmi Dar al-Da‘wah, New Delhi Edition, Page: 1085