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Hadith 633

حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدٌ قَالَ: نَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ زِيَادٍ، عَنْ شُعْبَةَ، عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ مُرَّةَ، قَالَ: سَأَلْتُ سَعِيدَ بْنَ جُبَيْرٍ عَنِ الْحَكَمَيْنِ فَغَضِبَ، وَقَالَ: مَا وُلِدْتُ إِذْ ذَاكَ، فَقُلْتُ: إِنَّمَا أَعْنِي حُكْمَ شِقَاقٍ، فَقَالَ: إِذَا كَانَ بَيْنَ الرَّجُلِ وَالْمَرْأَةِ دَرْءٌ أَوْ تَدَارِي، بَعَثُوا حَكَمَيْنِ، فَأَقْبَلَا عَلَى الَّذِي التَّدَارِي مِنْ قِبَلِهِ، فَوَعَظَاهُ وَأَمَرَاهُ، فَإِنْ أَطَاعَهُمَا، وَإِلَّا أَقْبَلَا عَلَى الْآخَرِ، فَإِنْ سَمِعَ مِنْهُمَا وَأَقْبَلَ إِلَى الَّذِي يُرِيدَانِ وَإِلَّا حَكَمَا بَيْنَهُمَا، فَمَا حَكَمَا مِنْ شَيْءٍ فَهُوَ جَائِزٌ، قَالَ شُعْبَةُ: وَأَكْثَرُ عِلْمِي قَالَ لِي رَجُلٌ إِلَى جَنْبِي: فَهُوَ جَائِزٌ .
Amr bin Murrah (may Allah have mercy on him) says: I asked Sa'id bin Jubair (may Allah have mercy on him) about the arbiters (hakamayn), so he became angry and said: "I was not even born at that time." I said: "I mean the ruling concerning discord (shiqaq)." So he said: "When there is disagreement or estrangement between a man and a woman, they appoint two arbiters. These two first turn to the one from whom the estrangement is occurring, so they advise him and command him. If he accepts their word, then good; otherwise, they turn to the other party. If he listens to them and is willing to do what they desire, then fine; otherwise, the two arbiters decide between them. And whatever decision they make is valid." Shu'bah (may Allah have mercy on him) says: To my knowledge, a person sitting near me said: "Thus, that decision is valid."
Hadith Reference سنن سعید بن منصور / كتاب التفسير / 633
Hadith Grading محدثین: سنده حسن لذاته، وهو صحيح لغيره؛ فإن عبد الرحمن بن زياد قد توبع.
Hadith Takhrij «أخرجه سعيد بن منصور فى (سننه) برقم: 633، والبيهقي فى(سننه الكبير) برقم: 14910، وعبد الرزاق فى (مصنفه) برقم: 11888»