Ibrahim (may Allah have mercy on him) said: "If it is said to the husband that he should not approach his wife until the child is weaned, and if he stays away for four months, then separation will occur through ila'; if he approaches her before that, three divorces will take place."
Hadith Referenceسنن سعید بن منصور / كتاب الطلاق / 3049
Hadith Takhrij«أخرجه سعيد بن منصور فى «سننه» ترقيم الدرالسلفية برقم:، 1872، وعبد الرزاق فى «مصنفه» برقم: 11633»