Hazrat Sha'bi (may Allah have mercy on him) said: When a woman says to her husband, "I will neither obey you nor perform ghusl," then the husband should raise his hand and say, "I will neither do anything for you nor fulfill anything." If the woman dislikes her husband, then the husband should take wealth from her and separate from her.
Hadith Referenceسنن سعید بن منصور / كتاب الطلاق / 2594
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:إسناده صحيح مقطوع
Hadith Takhrij«إسناده صحيح مقطوع، وأخرجه سعيد بن منصور فى «سننه» ترقيم الدرالسلفية برقم:، 1416، 1417»