سنن دارمي
Sunan ad-Darimi
من كتاب الطلاقFrom the Book of Divorce
باب في عِدَّةِ الْحَامِلِ الْمُتَوَفَّى عَنْهَا زَوْجُهَا وَالْمُطَلَّقَةِ:
Chapter: Waiting Period for Pregnant Widows and Divorcees
Hadith 2316
أَخْبَرَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ، أَخْبَرَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ، أَنَّ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنَ يَسَارٍ أَخْبَرَهُ، أَنَّ أَبَا سَلَمَةَ بْنَ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ أَخْبَرَهُ: أَنَّهُ اجْتَمَعَ هُوَ وَابْنُ عَبَّاسٍ عِنْدَ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ فَذَكَرُوا الرَّجُلَ يُتَوَفَّى عَنِ الْمَرْأَةِ فَتَلِدُ بَعْدَهُ بِلَيَالٍ قَلَائِلَ، فَقَالَ ابْنُ عَبَّاسٍ: حِلُّهَا آخِرُ الْأَجَلَيْنِ . وَقَالَ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ: إِذَا وَضَعَتْ، فَقَدْ حَلَّتْ، فَتَرَاجَعَا فِي ذَلِكَ بَيْنَهُمَا، فَقَالَ أَبُو هُرَيْرَةَ: أَنَا مَعَ ابْنِ أَخِي يَعْنِي أَبَا سَلَمَةَ، فَبَعَثُوا كُرَيْبًا مَوْلَى ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ إِلَى أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ فَسَأَلَهَا، فَذَكَرَتْ أُمُّ سَلَمَةَ،"أَنَّ سُبَيْعَةَ بِنْتَ الْحَارِثِ الْأَسْلَمِيَّةَ مَاتَ عَنْهَا زَوْجُهَا، فَنَفِسَتْ بَعْدَهُ بِلَيَالٍ وَأَنَّ رَجُلًا مِنْ بَنِي عَبْدِ الدَّارِ يُكْنَى أَبَا السَّنَابِلِ خَطَبَهَا، وَأَخْبَرَهَا أَنَّهَا قَدْ حَلَّتْ فَأَرَادَتْ أَنْ تَتَزَوَّجَ غَيْرَهُ، فَقَالَ لَهَا أَبُو السَّنَابِلِ: فَإِنَّكِ لَمْ تَحِلِّينَ، فَذَكَرَتْ سُبَيْعَةُ ذَلِكَ لِرَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَأَمَرَهَا أَنْ تَتَزَوَّجَ".
Abu Salamah bin Abdur Rahman reported that he and Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) gathered with Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), and the discussion was about a (pregnant) woman whose husband had passed away and she gave birth after only a few days. Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) said: Her waiting period (‘iddah) will be whichever is longer, and Abu Salamah said: When she gives birth, she becomes lawful (i.e., her ‘iddah is over and she can marry). There was a dispute between them about this, so Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: I am with my nephew Abu Salamah. Then he sent Kuraib, the freed slave of Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both), to Umm al-Mu’minin Sayyidah Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) and asked her this question. Sayyidah Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informed that Sayyidah Subai’ah bint al-Harith al-Aslamiyyah’s (may Allah be pleased with her) husband had passed away and after a few days she experienced postnatal bleeding (i.e., blood flowed after childbirth), and a man from Banu Abd al-Dar whose kunyah was Abu Sanabil proposed marriage to Sayyidah Subai’ah (may Allah be pleased with her) and informed her that (after childbirth) she had become lawful for marriage, and Sayyidah Subai’ah (may Allah be pleased with her) intended to marry another man instead of him. So Abu Sanabil said: You have not become lawful. Thus, she went to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and mentioned this incident, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) commanded her: “She may marry.”
Hadith 2317
أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ يَسَارٍ، عَنْ كُرَيْبٍ، عَنْ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ، قَالَتْ: "تُوُفِّيَ زَوْجُ سُبَيْعَةَ بِنْتِ الْحَارِثِ، فَوَضَعَتْ بَعْدَ وَفَاةِ زَوْجِهَا بِأَيَّامٍ، فَأَمَرَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنْ تَتَزَوَّجَ".
It is narrated from Kuraib that Sayyida Umm Salama (may Allah be pleased with her) said: Sayyida Subai'a bint al-Harith's (may Allah be pleased with her) husband passed away, and a few days after his death, Sayyida Subai'a (may Allah be pleased with her) gave birth to a child. So the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) ordered her to get married.
Hadith 2318
أَخْبَرَنَا بِشْرُ بْنُ عُمَرَ الزَّهْرَانِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الْأَحْوَصِ، حَدَّثَنَا مَنْصُورٌ، عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، عَنْ الْأَسْوَدِ، عَنْ أَبِي السَّنَابِلِ، قَالَ: وَضَعَتْ سُبَيْعَةُ بِنْتُ الْحَارِثِ حَمْلَهَا بَعْدَ وَفَاةِ زَوْجِهَا بِبِضْعٍ وَعِشْرِينَ لَيْلَةً، فَلَمَّا تَعَلَّتْ مِنْ نِفَاسِهَا تَشَوَّفَتْ، فَعِيبَ ذَلِكَ عَلَيْهَا، فَذُكِرَ أَمْرُهَا لِرَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَ: "إِنْ تَفْعَلْ، فَقَدْ انْقَضَى أَجَلُهَا".
Abu al-Sanabil (Ibn Ba'lak, may Allah be pleased with him) said: Lady Subai'ah bint al-Harith (may Allah be pleased with her) gave birth more than twenty nights after the death of her husband, and when she became pure from postpartum bleeding, she adorned herself, that is, prepared herself for marriage. She was criticized for this, so she mentioned it to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), and he said: "She may marry, and her waiting period has been completed."
Hadith 2319
أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ، عَنْ سُفْيَانَ، عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ، عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، عَنْ الْأَسْوَدِ: أَنَّ سُبَيْعَةَ وَضَعَتْ بَعْدَ وَفَاةِ زَوْجِهَا بِأَيَّامٍ فَتَشَوَّفَتْ، فَعَابَ أَبُو السَّنَابِلِ، فَسَأَلَتْ أَوْ ذَكَرَتْ أَمْرَهَا لِرَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ "فَأَمَرَهَا أَنْ تَتَزَوَّجَ".
It is narrated from Aswad that Sayyida Sabi’ah (may Allah be pleased with her) gave birth (to a child) a few days after her husband's death and she adorned herself. Abu al-Sanabil reproached her for this, and she mentioned it to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), so he instructed her to marry. (That is, he confirmed that her waiting period had ended and permitted her to adorn herself and marry.)
