سنن دارمي
Sunan ad-Darimi
من كتاب النكاحFrom the Book of Marriage
باب في الْغَيْرَةِ:
Chapter: Jealousy
Hadith 2262
حَدَّثَنَا يَعْلَى، حَدَّثَنَا الْأَعْمَشُ، عَنْ شَقِيقٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: "لَيْسَ أَحَدٌ أَغْيَرَ مِنَ اللَّهِ، لِذَلِكَ حَرَّمَ الْفَوَاحِشَ وَلَيْسَ أَحَدٌ أَحَبَّ إِلَيْهِ الْمَدْحُ مِنَ اللَّهِ".
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "There is no one more possessive than Allah, and that is why He has forbidden indecency and immoral deeds. And there is no one who likes to be praised more than Allah."
Hadith 2263
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْمُغِيرَةِ، حَدَّثَنَا الْأَوْزَاعِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ أَبِي كَثِيرٍ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، حَدَّثَنِي ابْنُ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَتِيكٍ، حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , قَالَ: "مِنَ الْغَيْرَةِ مَا يُحِبُّ اللَّه، وَمِنْهَا مَا يُبْغِضُ اللَّهُ: فَالْغَيْرَةُ الَّتِي يُحِبُّ اللَّه: الْغَيْرَةُ فِي الرِّيبَةِ، وَالْغَيْرَةُ الَّتِي يُبْغِضُ اللَّه، الْغَيْرَةُ فِي غَيْرِ رِيبَةٍ".
Ibn Jabir bin Atiq said: My father narrated to me a hadith that the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said: "There is a kind of jealousy that Allah likes and a kind of jealousy that Allah dislikes. The jealousy that Allah likes is when a person is jealous in a situation of doubt (for example, if someone jokes or laughs with his wife in seclusion, he feels jealous), and the jealousy that Allah dislikes is when a person is jealous without any doubt (or evidence), without any reason (for example, if someone leaves his house and he, without investigation, kills him out of jealousy)."
Hadith 2264
حَدَّثَنَا زَكَرِيَّا بْنُ عَدِيٍّ، حَدَّثَنَا عُبَيْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ عَمْرٍو، عَنْ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ بْنِ عُمَيْرٍ، عَنْ وَرَّادٍ مَوْلَى الْمُغِيرَةِ، عَنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ، قَالَ: بَلَغَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنَّ سَعْدَ بْنَ عُبَادَةَ، يَقُولُ: لَوْ وَجَدْتُ مَعَهَا رَجُلًا لَضَرَبْتُهَا بِالسَّيْفِ غَيْرَ مُصْفَحٍ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: "أَتَعْجَبُونَ مِنْ غَيْرَةِ سَعْدٍ ؟ أَنَا أَغَيْرُ مِنْ سَعْدٍ وَاللَّهُ أَغَيْرُ مِنِّي، وَلِذَلِكَ حَرَّمَ الْفَوَاحِشَ مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا وَمَا بَطَنَ وَلَا شَخْصَ أَغَيْرُ مِنَ اللَّهِ، وَلَا أَحَبُّ إِلَيْهِ مِنَ الْمَعَاذِيرِ، وَلِذَلِكَ بَعَثَ النَّبِيِّينَ مُبَشِّرِينَ وَمُنْذِرِينَ وَلَا شَخْصَ أَحَبُّ إِلَيْهِ الْمَدْحُ مِنَ اللَّه، وَلِذَلِكَ وَعَدَ الْجَنَّةَ".
Sayyiduna Mughira bin Shu’bah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) was informed that Sayyiduna Sa’d bin ‘Ubadah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “If I see a man with my wife, I will strike him with the sword and never spare him.” The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Are you amazed at Sa’d’s sense of honor? I am more possessive than him, and Allah, Glorified and Exalted is He, is more possessive than me. It is due to His sense of honor that He has forbidden indecency, both open and hidden. And there is no one more possessive than Allah. And there is no one who loves to accept excuses more than Allah, so He sent the Prophets as bearers of glad tidings and as warners (so that the servants may present their excuses and repent before punishment). And there is no one who loves to be praised more than Allah, so Allah has promised Paradise (so that the servants may worship and praise Him and thus attain Paradise).”
