Darimi

Sayyiduna Jabir bin Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with them both) said: We were on a journey with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). When we returned, I began to hurry. Suddenly, a rider came from behind. I turned and saw that it was the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). He said to me: "Jabir, why are you hurrying?" I replied: Because I have recently gotten married. He asked: "Did you marry a virgin or a previously married woman (thayyib)?" Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) replied: I married a previously married woman. He said: "Why did you not marry a virgin, so you could play with her and she could play with you?" Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "When you reach home, there will be only intimacy and meeting." Then, when we entered Madinah, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Wait, do not enter until night falls, that is, until 'Isha, so that the woman with disheveled hair may comb and beautify herself, and the one whose husband has been away may clean herself."