Sayyiduna Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) forbade shighar. Imam Malik (may Allah have mercy on him) said: And shighar is that a person marries off his daughter or sister on the condition that the other person also marries off his daughter or sister to him without a dowry. Imam Darimi (may Allah have mercy on him) was asked: Will such a marriage be valid? He replied: I do not like it.
Hadith Referenceسنن دارمي / من كتاب النكاح / 2217
Hadith Gradingتحقیق (حسین سلیم أسد الدارانی):إسناده قوي وهو عند مالك في النكاح، [مكتبه الشامله نمبر: 2226]
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