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سنن دارمي
Darimi
من كتاب النكاحFrom the Book of Marriage
باب في حَقِّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى الْمَرْأَةِ:Chapter: The Husband’s Rights Over the Wife
Hadith 2265
اُردوEn
حَدَّثَنَا هَاشِمُ بْنُ الْقَاسِمِ، حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، أَخْبَرَنَا قَتَادَةُ، عَنْ زُرَارَةَ بْنِ أَوْفَى الْعَامِرِيِّ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , قَالَ: "إِذَا بَاتَتِ الْمَرْأَةُ هَاجِرَةً لِفِرَاشِ زَوْجِهَا، لَعَنَتْهَا الْمَلَائِكَةُ حَتَّى تَرْجِعَ".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If a woman spends the night away from her husband's bed due to anger towards him, the angels curse her until she refrains from this act."
Brief Explanation
(Commentary on Hadith 2264)
Whether a woman's anger is justified or unjustified, in view of obedience it is her duty to remain with her husband on his bed; if, due to displeasure, she does not do so at night, then without doubt she is deserving of this severe warning, and the one upon whom the angels send curses is certainly deprived of Allah's mercy. For a woman, obedience to her husband alone can make her life better.
The husband has a very great right over the woman, as is known and famous from the authentic hadith: If I were to command anyone to prostrate to another, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands—let alone that she should become angry with her husband or disobey him.
In another hadith it is stated: When a woman performs the five daily prayers, fasts in the month (of Ramadan), protects her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise through whichever door she wishes.
[مشكوٰة : 3256].
Whether a woman's anger is justified or unjustified, in view of obedience it is her duty to remain with her husband on his bed; if, due to displeasure, she does not do so at night, then without doubt she is deserving of this severe warning, and the one upon whom the angels send curses is certainly deprived of Allah's mercy. For a woman, obedience to her husband alone can make her life better.
The husband has a very great right over the woman, as is known and famous from the authentic hadith: If I were to command anyone to prostrate to another, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands—let alone that she should become angry with her husband or disobey him.
In another hadith it is stated: When a woman performs the five daily prayers, fasts in the month (of Ramadan), protects her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise through whichever door she wishes.
[مشكوٰة : 3256].
