سنن دارمي
Sunan ad-Darimi
من كتاب النكاحFrom the Book of Marriage
باب الرُّخْصَةِ في النَّظَرِ إِلَى الْمَرْأَةِ عِنْدَ الْخِطْبَةِ:Chapter: Permission to Look at a Woman for Proposal
Hadith 2209
أَخْبَرَنَا قَبِيصَةُ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ عَاصِمٍ الْأَحْوَلِ، عَنْ بَكْرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ الْمُزَنِي، عَنْ الْمُغِيرَةِ بْنِ شُعْبَةَ أَنَّهُ خَطَبَ امْرَأَةً مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ، فَقَالَ لَهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: "اذْهَبْ، فَانْظُرْ إِلَيْهَا، فَإِنَّهُ أَجْدَرُ أَنْ يُؤْدَمَ بَيْنَكُمَا".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Mughirah bin Shu’bah (may Allah be pleased with him) that he proposed marriage to a woman from the Ansar, so the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Go and look at her, for this will increase love and harmony between you both."
