سنن دارمي
Sunan ad-Darimi
من كتاب الاطعمةFrom the Book of Foods
باب في الْوَلِيمَةِ:Chapter: The Wedding Feast (Walima)
Hadith 2102
أَخْبَرَنَا عَفَّانُ، حَدَّثَنَا هَمَّامٌ، حَدَّثَنَا قَتَادَةُ، عَنْ الْحَسَنِ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُثْمَانَ الثَّقَفِيِّ، عَنْ رَجُلٍ مِنْ ثَقِيفَ أَعْوَرَ، قَالَ: كَانَ يُقَالُ لَهُ مَعْرُوفٌ: أَيْ يُثْنَى عَلَيْهِ خَيْرٌ إِنْ لَمْ يَكُنْ اسْمُهُ زُهَيْرَ بْنَ عُثْمَانَ، فَلَا أَدْرِي مَا اسْمُهُ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: "الْوَلِيمَةُ أَوَّلَ يَوْمٍ حَقٌّ، وَالثَّانِيَ مَعْرُوفٌ، وَالثَّالِثَ سُمْعَةٌ وَرِيَاءٌ" . قَالَ قَتَادَةُ: وَحَدَّثَنِي رَجُلٌ، عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْمُسَيِّبِ، أَنَّهُ دُعِيَ أَوَّلَ يَوْمٍ فَأَجَابَ، وَدُعِيَ الْيَوْمَ الثَّانِيَ فَأَجَابَ، وَدُعِيَ الْيَوْمَ الثَّالِثَ فَحَصَبَ الرَّسُولَ وَلَمْ يُجِبْهُ، وَقَالَ: "أَهْلُ سُمْعَةٍ وَرِيَاءٍ".
It is narrated from Abdullah bin Uthman Thaqafi. A blind man from Thaqif, who was known among people for his goodness, said—his name was Zuhair bin Uthman, and if it was not this name, then I do not know what his name was. He said that the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "The food of the wedding feast (walimah) is necessary on the first day, better on the second day (that is, one should invite and accept the invitation), and the walimah on the third day is for show and ostentation." Qatadah said: A person told me that Sa'id bin al-Musayyib was invited on the first day and he accepted, he also accepted the invitation on the second day, but he did not accept the invitation on the third day and said that these people are seeking fame and show.
