- " أشيروا على النساء في أنفسهن، فقال: إن البكر تستحي يا رسول الله؟ قال: الثيب تعرب عن نفسها بلسانها، البكر رضاها صماتها ".
Adi bin Adi Kindi narrates from his father that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Consult women regarding themselves (at the time of marriage)." Someone said: O Messenger of Allah! A virgin girl feels shy (how should she be consulted)? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "A widow expresses herself regarding her matter, and the consent of a virgin is her silence."