Sahih Ibn Khuzaymah

Ismail bin Abdur Rahman bin Atiyah Ansari narrates that my grandmother told me that when the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) gathered the Ansari women in a house, Sayyidina Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) came to us. He stood at the door and greeted us with salam, and we replied to his salam. Then he said, "I am the messenger of the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) to you." We said, "Welcome to the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) and his messenger." He said, "Do you pledge allegiance on the condition that you will not associate anything with Allah, nor steal, nor commit adultery?" She says, we replied, "Yes." So we extended our hands (for allegiance) from inside the house and he extended his hand from outside. She says, the Prophet (peace be upon him) commanded us that on the days of Eid, we should also bring out the menstruating and virgin girls, and we were forbidden from following funeral processions, and Jumu'ah is not obligatory upon us. Ismail says, I asked her, "What is that good deed from which you were forbidden?" She replied, "We were forbidden from wailing (mourning loudly)."