صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب إخباره ﷺ عن مناقب الصحابة رجالهم ونسائهم بذكر أسمائهم رضوان الله عليهم أجمعينBook of the Prophet’s ﷺ Reports on the Virtues of the Companions, Men and Women, by Name
ذكر عمرو بن العاص السهمي رضي الله عنه - ذكر وصف تزوج أبي طلحة أم سليم-
Subchapter
Hadith 7187
أَخْبَرَنَا عِمْرَانُ بْنُ مُوسَى بْنِ مُجَاشِعٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا الصَّلْتُ بْنُ مَسْعُودٍ الْجَحْدَرِيُّ ، حَدَّثَنَا جَعْفَرُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ ، حَدَّثَنَا ثَابِتٌ ، عَنْ أَنَسٍ ، قَالَ : خَطَبَ أَبُو طَلْحَةَ أُمَّ سُلَيْمٍ ، فَقَالَتْ لَهُ : مَا مِثْلُكَ يَا أَبَا طَلْحَةَ يُرَدُّ ، وَلَكِنِّي امْرَأَةٌ مَسْلِمَةٌ ، وَأَنْتَ رَجُلٌ كَافِرٌ ، وَلا يَحِلّ لِي أَنْ أَتَزَوَّجَكَ ، فَإِنْ تُسْلِمْ فَذَلِكَ مَهْرِي ، لا أَسْأَلُكَ غَيْرَهُ ، فَأَسْلَمَ ، فَكَانَتْ لَهُ ، فَدَخَلَ بِهَا فَحَمَلَتْ فَوَلَدَتْ غُلامًا صَبِيحًا ، وَكَانَ أَبُو طَلْحَةَ يُحِبُّهُ حُبًّا شَدِيدًا ، فَعَاشَ حَتَّى تَحَرَّكَ فَمَرِضَ ، فَحَزِنَ عَلَيْهِ أَبُو طَلْحَةَ حُزْنًا شَدِيدًا حَتَّى تَضَعْضَعَ ، قَالَ : وَأَبُو طَلْحَةَ يَغْدُو عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَيَرُوحُ ، فَرَاحَ رَوْحَةً وَمَاتَ الصَّبِيُّ ، فَعَمَدَتْ إِلَيْهِ أُمُّ سُلَيْمٍ ، فَطَيَّبَتْهُ وَنَظَّفْتُهُ وَجَعَلَتْهُ فِي مِخْدَعِنَا ، فَأَتَى أَبُو طَلْحَةَ ، فَقَالَ : كَيْفَ أَمْسَى بُنَيَّ ؟ قَالَتْ : بِخَيْرٍ ، مَا كَانَ مُنْذُ اشْتَكَى أَسْكَنَ مِنْهُ اللَّيْلَةَ ، قَالَ : فَحَمِدَ اللَّهَ وَسُرَّ بِذَلِكَ ، فَقَرَّبَتْ لَهُ عَشَاءَهُ ، فَتَعَشَّى ثُمَّ مَسَّتْ شَيْئًا مِنْ طِيبٍ ، فَتَعَرَّضَتْ لَهُ حَتَّى وَاقَعَ بِهَا ، فَلَمَّا تَعَشَّى ، وَأَصَابَ مِنْ أَهْلِهِ ، قَالَتْ : يَا أَبَا طَلْحَةَ ، أَرَأَيْتَ لَوَ أَنَّ جَارًا لَكَ أَعَارَكَ عَارِيَّةً ، فَاسْتَمْتَعْتَ بِهَا ، ثُمَّ أَرَادَ أَخْذَهَا مِنْكَ أَكُنْتَ رَادَّهَا عَلَيْهِ ؟ فَقَالَ : إِي وَاللَّهِ ، إِنِّي كُنْتُ لَرَادُّهَا عَلَيْهِ ، قَالَتْ : طَيْبَةً بِهَا نَفْسُكَ ؟ قَالَ : طَيْبَةً بِهَا نَفْسِي ، قَالَتْ : فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ قَدْ أَعَارَكَ بُنَيَّ وَمَتَّعَكَ بِهِ مَا شَاءَ ، ثُمَّ قُبِضَ إِلَيْهِ ، فَاصْبِرْ وَاحْتَسَبَ ، قَالَ : فَاسْتَرْجَعَ أَبُو طَلْحَةَ وَصَبَرَ ، ثُمَّ أَصْبَحَ غَادِيًا عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَحَدَّثَهُ حَدِيثَ أُمِّ سُلَيْمٍ كَيْفَ صَنَعَتْ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " بَارَكَ اللَّهُ لَكُمَا فِي لَيْلَتِكُمَا " ، قَالَ : وَحَمَلَتْ مَنْ تِلْكَ الْوَاقِعَةَ فَأَثْقَلَتْ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ لأَبِي طَلْحَةَ : " إِذَا وَلَدَتْ أُمُّ سُلَيْمٍ فَجِئْنِي بِوَلَدِهَا " ، فَحَمَلَهُ أَبُو طَلْحَةَ فِي خِرْقَةٍ ، فَجَاءَ بِهِ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، قَالَ : فَمَضَغَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ تَمْرَةً فَمَجَّهَا فِي فِيهِ ، فَجَعَلَ الصَّبِيُّ يَتَلَمَّظُ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ لأَبِي طَلْحَةَ : " حِبُّ الأَنْصَارِ التَّمْرَ " ، فَحَنَّكَهُ وَسَمَّى عَلَيْهِ ، وَدَعَا لَهُ ، وَسَمَّاهُ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ .
Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: Abu Talhah sent a marriage proposal to Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her), so she replied: "Abu Talhah, a proposal from someone like you cannot be rejected, but I am a Muslim woman and you are a disbeliever. It is not permissible for me to marry you. If you accept Islam, that will be my dowry; I will not ask you for anything else." So Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) accepted Islam, then Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) was married to him. She became pregnant and gave birth to a beautiful child. Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) loved this child very much. After some time, the child became ill. Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) was extremely saddened by this, to the extent that he became weak.
Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) used to visit the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) morning and evening. Once, he went to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), and in his absence, the child passed away. Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) applied fragrance to the child, cleaned him, and laid him in our small room. Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) came home and asked: "How is my son?" Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) replied: "He is in a good state; since he became ill, tonight he is the most peaceful." Then Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) praised Allah for this and became very happy. Then Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) presented the evening meal before him, he ate the meal, then Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) applied some fragrance and came before him, until Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) had relations with her. When he had eaten the evening meal and had relations with his wife, Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "O Abu Talhah, what is your opinion if one of your neighbors lent you something and you kept benefiting from it, then he wanted to take it back from you, would you return it to him?" Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) replied: "Yes, by Allah, I would return it to him." Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) asked: "With pleasure?" He replied: "With pleasure." So Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "Allah Almighty gave me my son as a loan to you. You benefited from him as long as He willed, then Allah Almighty took his soul, so now be patient and hope for reward." Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: So Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) recited «انا لله و انا الیه راجعون» and was patient. The next day, he went to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) in the morning and informed him about the incident of Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her), that is, what she had done. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "May Allah bless both of you in the night you spent together."
Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) became pregnant from that night. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him): "When Umm Sulaym gives birth to the child, bring him to me." So Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) brought the child wrapped in a cloth to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) chewed a date and put it in the child's mouth, so the child began to suck it. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him): "The Ansar truly love dates." Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) performed tahneek for the child, named him, and prayed for him. He named him Abdullah.
Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) used to visit the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) morning and evening. Once, he went to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), and in his absence, the child passed away. Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) applied fragrance to the child, cleaned him, and laid him in our small room. Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) came home and asked: "How is my son?" Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) replied: "He is in a good state; since he became ill, tonight he is the most peaceful." Then Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) praised Allah for this and became very happy. Then Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) presented the evening meal before him, he ate the meal, then Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) applied some fragrance and came before him, until Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) had relations with her. When he had eaten the evening meal and had relations with his wife, Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "O Abu Talhah, what is your opinion if one of your neighbors lent you something and you kept benefiting from it, then he wanted to take it back from you, would you return it to him?" Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) replied: "Yes, by Allah, I would return it to him." Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) asked: "With pleasure?" He replied: "With pleasure." So Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "Allah Almighty gave me my son as a loan to you. You benefited from him as long as He willed, then Allah Almighty took his soul, so now be patient and hope for reward." Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: So Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) recited «انا لله و انا الیه راجعون» and was patient. The next day, he went to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) in the morning and informed him about the incident of Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her), that is, what she had done. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "May Allah bless both of you in the night you spent together."
Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) became pregnant from that night. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him): "When Umm Sulaym gives birth to the child, bring him to me." So Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) brought the child wrapped in a cloth to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) chewed a date and put it in the child's mouth, so the child began to suck it. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to Sayyiduna Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him): "The Ansar truly love dates." Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) performed tahneek for the child, named him, and prayed for him. He named him Abdullah.
