صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب الحظر والإباحةBook of Prohibitions and Permissions
باب المزاح والضحك - ذكر الخبر الدال على إباحة استعمال المرء الكنايات في كلامه وإن لم يكن بقاصد لحقائقها-
Chapter on Joking and Laughing – Evidence for permissibility of using metaphors without intending their literal meaning
Hadith 5799
أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ الْفَضْلِ الْكَلاعِيُّ بِحِمْصَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا كَثِيرُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ الْمَذْحِجِيُّ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ ، عَنِ الزُّبَيْدِيِّ ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتِ : اسْتَأْذَنَ عَلَيَّ أَفْلَحُ أَخُو أَبِي قُعَيْسٍ بَعْدَ مَا نَزَلَ الْحِجَابُ ، فَقُلْتُ : وَاللَّهِ لا آذَنُ لَهُ حَتَّى أَسْتَأْذِنَ فِيهِ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، قَالَتْ : فَدَخَلَ عَلَيَّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّ أَفْلَحَ أَخَا أَبِي قُعَيْسٍ اسْتَأْذَنَ عَلَيَّ ، فَأَبَيْتُ أَنْ آذَنَ لَهُ حَتَّى أَسْتَأْذِنَكَ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " وَمَا يَمْنَعُكِ أَنْ تَأْذَنِي لِعَمِّكِ ؟ " قَالَتْ : قُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّ الرَّجُلَ لَيْسَ هُوَ الَّذِي أَرْضَعَنِي ، إِنَّمَا أَرْضَعَتْنِي امْرَأَتُهُ ! قَالَ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " هُوَ عَمُّكِ ، ائْذَنِي لَهُ تَرِبَتْ يَمِينُكِ " ، قَالَ عُرْوَةُ : فَلِذَلِكَ كَانَتْ عَائِشَةُ تَقُولُ : حَرِّمُوا مِنَ الرَّضَاعِ مَا تُحَرِّمُونَ مِنَ النَّسَبِ .
Lady Aisha Siddiqa (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates: The brother of Abu Qais, Aflaḥ, once sought permission to enter after the command of hijab had been revealed. So I said: By Allah, I will not give him permission until I seek permission from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) regarding him. Lady Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) came to me, and I said: O Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)! The brother of Abu Qais, Aflaḥ, sought permission to enter upon me, so I refused to give him permission until I seek your permission. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Why did you not give permission to your uncle to enter? Lady Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates: I said: O Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)! The man did not breastfeed me, his wife breastfed me. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: He is your uncle, you should have given him permission to enter, may your hands be dusted. Urwah narrates: For this reason, Lady Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) used to say: Due to suckling, you should consider unlawful those things which are considered unlawful due to lineage.
