Sayyiduna Iyad bin Himar (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: I submitted, "O Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), a person from my tribe abuses me. He is of a lower status than me. Should I take revenge on him?" The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Both individuals who abuse each other are two devils. They quarrel and they lie."
Hadith Referenceصحیح ابن حبان / كتاب الحظر والإباحة / 5726
Hadith Gradingفضيلة الشيخ الإمام محمد ناصر الدين الألبانيصحيح لغيره - «إيمان ابن أبي شيبة» (96/ 111)، «التعليق الرغيب» (3/ 285).فضيلة الشيخ العلّامة شُعيب الأرناؤوطإسناده صحيح على شرط الصحيح
Sayyiduna Iyad bin Himar (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: I said, "O Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)! A man from my tribe insults me, and he is of lesser status than me. Will I be sinful if I take revenge on him?" The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Two people who insult each other are both devils; both of them escalate the matter and speak falsely."
(Imam Ibn Hibban, may Allah have mercy on him, says:) The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) used the word 'devil' for the one who insults as a metaphor, because the devil guides that person towards this action until he escalates the matter and lies. This does not mean that both people who insult each other actually become devils.
Hadith Referenceصحیح ابن حبان / كتاب الحظر والإباحة / 5727
Hadith Gradingفضيلة الشيخ الإمام محمد ناصر الدين الألبانيصحيح - المصدر نفسه.فضيلة الشيخ العلّامة شُعيب الأرناؤوطإسناده صحيح على شرط مسلم