صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب الحظر والإباحةBook of Prohibitions and Permissions
باب الاستماع المكروه وسوء الظن والغضب والفحش - ذكر البيان بأن من شرار الناس من اتقي فحشه-
Chapter on Disliked Listening, Suspicion, Anger, and Foul Speech – On clarifying that the worst people are those whose evil is feared
Hadith 5696
أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ بْنِ الْخَلِيلِ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عَمَّارٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا حَاتِمُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ حَرْمَلَةَ ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ نيار ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ، أَنَّ رَجُلاً اسْتَأْذَنَ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَلَمَّا سَمِعَ صَوْتَهُ ، قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ لِعَائِشَةَ : " بِئْسَ الرَّجُلُ ، أَوْ بِئْسَ ابْنُ الْعَشِيرَةِ ، فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ انْبَسَطَ إِلَيْهِ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَلَمَّا خَرَجَ ، كَلَّمَتْهُ عَائِشَةُ ، فَقَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، قُلْتَ : بِئْسَ الرَّجُلُ ، أَوْ بِئْسَ ابْنُ الْعَشِيرَةِ ، فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ انْبَسَطْتَ إِلَيْهِ ، فَقَالَ : يَا عَائِشَةُ ، شَرُّ النَّاسِ مَنْ يَتَّقِي النَّاسُ فُحْشَهُ " .
Lady Aisha Siddiqa (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates: A man sought permission to enter upon the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). When the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) heard his voice, he said to Lady Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her): "This is a bad person" (the narrator is in doubt, perhaps these are the words), "he is a bad member of his family." When that person came in, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) treated him kindly. When he left, Lady Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) spoke to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) about this. Lady Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "You said: 'This is a bad person' (the narrator is in doubt, perhaps these are the words), 'he is a bad member of his family,' but when he came in, you treated him kindly." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "O Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her)! The worst among people is the one whom people avoid because of his bad language."
