صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب الحظر والإباحةBook of Prohibitions and Permissions
باب الاستماع المكروه وسوء الظن والغضب والفحش - ذكر الإخبار عما يجب على المرء من ذم النفس عن الخروج إلى ما لا يرضي الله جل وعلا بالغضب-
Chapter on Disliked Listening, Suspicion, Anger, and Foul Speech – On the obligation to restrain oneself from angering Allah
Hadith 5689
أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سَلْمٍ بِبَيْتِ الْمَقْدِسِ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا حَرْمَلَةُ بْنُ يَحْيَى ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ وَهْبٍ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي عَمْرُو بْنُ الْحَارِثِ ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ ، عَنِ الأَحْنَفِ بْنِ قَيْسٍ ، عَنِ ابن عَمٍّ لَهُ وَهُوَ جَارِيَةُ بْنُ قُدَامَةَ ، أَنَّهُ قَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، قُلْ لِي قَوْلاً يَنْفَعُنِي اللَّهُ بِهِ ، وَأَقْلِلْ لَعَلِّي لا أُغْفِلُهُ ، قَالَ : " لا تَغْضَبْ " فَعَادَ لَهُ مِرَارًا ، كُلُّ ذَلِكَ يَرْجِعُ إِلَيْهِ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " لا تَغْضَبْ " .
Ahnaf bin Qais narrates the statement of his uncle, Sayyiduna Jariyah bin Qudamah (may Allah be pleased with him): He submitted, "O Messenger of Allah, tell me something by which Allah will benefit me, and tell me a brief statement so that I do not become heedless of it." The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Do not become angry." He asked the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) the same question several times. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) kept giving him the same answer every time: "Do not become angry."
Hadith 5690
أَخْبَرَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَلِيِّ بْنِ الْمُثَنَّى ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو خَيْثَمَةَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي ، عَنِ الأَحْنَفِ بْنِ قَيْسٍ ، عَنْ جَارِيَةَ بْنِ قُدَامَةَ ، أَنَّ رَجُلاً قَالَ لِلنَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قُلْ لِي قَوْلاً وَأَقْلِلْ ، قال : " لا تَغْضَبْ " ، فَأَعَادَ عَلَيْهِ ، قَالَ : " لا تَغْضَبْ " ، قَالَ أَبُو حَاتِمٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ : قَوْلُهُ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " لا تَغْضَبْ " ، أَرَادَ بِهِ أَنْ لا تَعْمَلَ عَمَلاً بَعْدَ الْغَضَبِ مِمَّا نَهَيْتُكَ عَنْهُ ، لا أَنَّهُ نَهَاهُ عَنِ الْغَضَبِ ، إِذِ الْغَضَبُ شَيْءٌ جِبِلَّةٌ فِي الإِنْسَانِ ، وَمُحَالٌ أَنْ يُنْهَى الْمَرْءُ عَنْ جِبِلَّتِهِ الَّتِي خُلِقَ عَلَيْهَا ، بَلْ وَقَعَ النَّهْيُ فِي هَذَا الْخَبَرِ عَمَّا يَتَوَلَّدُ مِنَ الْغَضَبِ مِمَّا ذَكَرْنَاهُ .
Sayyiduna Jariyah bin Qudamah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: A man presented himself before the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and said, "Please advise me, and grant me a brief advice." The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "Do not get angry." That man asked you the same question again, so you said the same: "Do not get angry."
(Imam Ibn Hibban, may Allah have mercy on him, says:) The statement of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him): "Do not get angry," by this he meant: After becoming angry, do not do anything from which I have forbidden you. It does not mean that the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) has prohibited feeling anger, because anger is part of human nature, and it is impossible to prohibit a person from something that is inherent in his nature. Rather, this prohibition is regarding those actions that result from anger, as we have mentioned.
(Imam Ibn Hibban, may Allah have mercy on him, says:) The statement of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him): "Do not get angry," by this he meant: After becoming angry, do not do anything from which I have forbidden you. It does not mean that the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) has prohibited feeling anger, because anger is part of human nature, and it is impossible to prohibit a person from something that is inherent in his nature. Rather, this prohibition is regarding those actions that result from anger, as we have mentioned.
