صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب الحظر والإباحةBook of Prohibitions and Permissions
ذكر الأمر لمن رأى امرأة أعجبته أن يأتي امرأته حينئذ-
On the instruction for a man who is attracted to a woman to approach his wife
Hadith 5572
أَخْبَرَنَا عُمَرُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الْهَمَذَانِيُّ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الأَعْلَى بْنُ عَبْدِ الأَعْلَى ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ، عَنْ أَبِي الزُّبَيْرِ ، عَنْ جَابِرٍ ، أَنّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ رَأَى امْرَأَةً ، فَدَخَلَ عَلَى زَيْنَبَ ، فَقَضَى حَاجَتَهُ وَخَرَجَ ، وَقَالَ : " إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ إِذَا أَقْبَلَتْ ، أَقْبَلَتْ فِي صُورَةِ شَيْطَانٍ ، فَإِذَا رَأَى أَحَدُكُمُ امْرَأَةً أَعْجَبَتْهُ ، فَلْيَأْتِ أَهْلَهُ ، فَإِنَّ مَعَهَا مِثْلَ الَّذِي مَعَهَا " .
Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) saw a woman (and he liked her), so he went to Lady Zainab (may Allah be pleased with her), fulfilled his desire with her, then came out (of the house) and said: When a woman comes, she comes in the form of Satan. When any man sees a woman and is attracted to her, he should go to his wife, for his wife has the same as that woman has.
