صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب الأطعمةBook of Foods
باب الضيافة - ذكر الإباحة للمرء إذا دعي إلى ضيافة أن يستدعي من المضيف ذهاب غيره معه إذا علم عدم كراهية المضيف لذلك-
Hospitality – Permissibility of asking the host to allow someone else to join if the host does not mind
Hadith 5301
أَخْبَرَنَا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ سُفْيَانَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ سَلامٍ الْجُمَحِيُّ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ ، عَنْ ثَابِتٍ ، عَنْ أَنَسٍ ، " أَنَّ رَجُلاً فَارِسِيًّا كَانَ جَارًا لِلنَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، وَكَانَتْ مَرَقَتُهُ أَطْيَبَ شَيْءٍ رِيحًا ، فَصَنَعَ طَعَامًا ، ثُمَّ أَتَى النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَأَوْمَأَ إِلَيْهِ أَنْ تَعَالَ ، وَعَائِشَةُ إِلَى جَنْبِهِ ، فَقَالَ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " وَهَذِهِ مَعِي ، وَأَشَارَ إِلَى عَائِشَةَ ، فَقَالَ : لا ، قَالَ : ثُمَّ أَشَارَ إِلَيْهِ ، فَقَالَ : وَهَذِهِ مَعِي ، قَالَ : لا ، ثُمَّ أَشَارَ إِلَيْهِ الثَّالِثَةَ ، فَقَالَ : وَهَذِهِ مَعِي ، وَأَشَارَ إِلَى عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَ : نَعَمْ " .
Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: A Persian man was a neighbor of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). His stew used to be extremely fragrant. He prepared food and then came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and gestured to him to come. At that time, Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) was present with the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: Will she come with me? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) pointed towards Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), so he replied: No. Then he gestured again to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), so the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: She is with me. He again said: No. Then for the third time, he gestured to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), so the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: She is with me. When the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) pointed towards Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), he said: Alright (meaning she may also come).
