صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب السيرBook of Expeditions
باب في الخلافة والإمارة - ذكر الإباحة للإمام لزوم المداراة مع رعيته وإن علم من بعضهم ضد ما يوجب الحق من ذلك-
Chapter on Caliphate and Leadership - On the permissibility for the leader to be diplomatic with his people, even if some do not deserve it
Hadith 4538
أَخْبَرَنَا الْفَضْلُ بْنُ الْحُبَابِ الْجُمَحِيُّ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ الْمَدِينِيِّ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ ، قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ ابْنَ الْمُنْكَدِرِ ، يَقُولُ : حَدَّثَنِي عُرْوَةُ بْنُ الزُّبَيْرِ ، أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ عَائِشَةَ ، تَقُولُ : " اسْتَأْذَنَ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ رَجُلٌ ، فَقَالَ : " ائْذَنِي لَهُ ، فَبِئْسَ ابْنُ الْعَشِيرَةِ أَوْ بِئْسَ رَجُلُ الْعَشِيرَةِ " . فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ عَلَيْهِ أَلانَ لَهُ الْقَوْلَ ، فَلَمَّا خَرَجَ قُلْتُ : أَيْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، قُلْتَ لَهُ الَّذِي قُلْتَ ، فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ أَلَنْتَ لَهُ الْقَوْلَ ، قَالَ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " أَيْ عَائِشَةُ ، إِِنَّ شَرَّ النَّاسِ مَنْزِلَةً عِنْدَ اللَّهِ مَنْ تَرَكَهُ النَّاسُ ، أَوْ وَدَعَهُ النَّاسُ اتِّقَاءَ شَرِّهِ " .
Lady Aisha Siddiqa (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates: A man sought permission to enter upon the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Allow him to enter, he is a very bad person of his family (the narrator is doubtful about one word here). When that person entered, the Prophet (peace be upon him) spoke to him gently. When he left, I asked, O Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him)! You had said this about him before, yet you spoke to him gently. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: O Aisha, in the sight of Allah, the worst person among the people will be the one whom people leave alone (ignore) to avoid his evil (the narrator is doubtful about one word here).
