صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب الطلاقBook of Divorce
باب العدة - ذكر وصف عدة المتوفى عنها زوجها-
Chapter on Waiting Period – Description of the waiting period for a widow
Hadith 4292
أَخْبَرَنَا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ إِِدْرِيسَ الأَنْصَارِيُّ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ أَبِي بَكْرٍ ، عَنْ مَالِكٍ بن أنس بن مالك ، عَنْ سَعْدِ بْنِ إِِسْحَاقَ بْنِ كَعْبِ بْنِ عُجْرَةَ ، عَنْ عَمَّتِهِ زَيْنَبَ بِنْتِ كَعْبِ بْنِ عُجْرَةَ ، أَنَّ الْفُرَيْعَةَ بِنْتَ مَالِكِ بْنِ سِنَانَ وَهِيَ أُخْتُ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ أَخْبَرَتْهَا ، أَنَّهَا جَاءَتْ إِِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ تَسْأَلُهُ أَنْ تَرْجِعَ إِِلَى أَهْلِهَا فِي بَنِي خُدْرَةَ ، فَإِِنَّ زَوْجَهَا خَرَجَ فِي طَلَبِ أَعْبُدٍ لَهُ أَبَقُوا ، حَتَّى إِِذَا كَانُوا بِطَرَفِ الْقَدُومِ لَحِقَهُمْ فَقَتَلُوهُ ، فَسَأَلْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنْ أَرْجِعَ إِِلَى أَهْلِي ، فَإِِنَّ زَوْجِي لَمْ يَتْرُكْنِي فِي مَنْزِلٍ يَمْلِكُهُ ، وَلا نَفَقَةَ ، فَقَالَتْ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " نَعَمْ " . فَانْصَرَفْتُ حَتَّى إِِذَا كُنْتُ فِي الْحُجْرَةِ أَوْ فِي الْمَسْجِدِ ، دَعَانِي أَوْ أَمَرَنِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَدُعِيتُ لَهُ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " كَيْفَ قُلْتِ ؟ " قَالَتْ : فَرَدَدْتُ عَلَيْهِ الْقِصَّةَ الَّتِي ذَكَرْتُ مِنْ شَأْنِ زَوْجِي ، فَقَالَ : " امْكُثِي فِي بَيْتِكِ حَتَّى يَبْلُغَ الْكِتَابُ أَجَلَهُ " . قَالَتْ : فَاعْتَدَدْتُ فِيهِ أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا ، قَالَتْ : فَلَمَّا كَانَ عُثْمَانُ بْنُ عَفَّانَ أَرْسَلَ إِِلَيَّ ، فَسَأَلَنِي عَنْ ذَلِكَ فَأَخْبَرْتُهُ ، فَاتَّبَعَهُ ، وَقَضَى بِهِ . قَالَ أَبُو حَاتِمٍ : رَوَى هَذَا الْخَبَرُ الزُّهْرِيُّ ، عَنْ مَالِكٍ . وَالْقَدُومُ : مَوْضِعٌ بِالْحِجَازِ ، وَهُوَ الْمَوْضِعُ الَّذِي رُوِيَ فِي بَعْضُ الأَخْبَارِ : أَنَّ إِِبْرَاهِيمَ اخْتَتَنَ بِالْقَدُومِ .
Sayyida Zaynab bint Ka’b bin ‘Ujrah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates: Sayyida Fari’ah bint Malik bin Sinan (may Allah be pleased with her), who is the sister of Sayyiduna Abu Sa’id Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him), informed this woman that she went to the service of the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) and requested him that the woman be allowed to move to her family (Banu Khudrah), because her husband had gone out in search of some of his runaway slaves, and at a place called Qudum he caught those slaves, and those slaves killed him. The woman narrates: I asked the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) if I could return to my family because my husband had not left for me any house that he owned, nor anything to spend. The woman narrates: The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Alright.” I left from there, and while I was still in the room (the narrator is unsure, perhaps these are the words), or perhaps I was in the mosque, the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) called me (the narrator is unsure, perhaps these are the words), and the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) gave an order regarding me, so I was called and brought to the service of the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him). The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: “What did you say?” The woman says: I narrated the whole incident to the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) that I had told him about my husband’s situation. So the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Stay in your house until your waiting period (‘iddah) is completed.” The woman narrates: So I spent the waiting period of four months and ten days in that house. The woman narrates: When the caliphate of Sayyiduna ‘Uthman Ghani (may Allah be pleased with him) came, he sent for me and inquired about this matter, so I informed him about it, and he followed it and made a decision accordingly. (Imam Ibn Hibban, may Allah have mercy on him, says:) This narration has been transmitted by Imam Malik from al-Zuhri, and “Qudum” is the name of a place in Hijaz. It is the place regarding which, in some narrations, it is mentioned that Sayyiduna Ibrahim (peace be upon him) performed circumcision at Qudum.
