صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب الجنائز وما يتعلق بها مقدما أو مؤخراBook of Funerals and Related Matters
فصل في النياحة ونحوها - ذكر الإباحة للنساء أن يبكين موتاهن ما لم يكن ثم نوح
Section on wailing and similar acts – Permitting women to cry for their dead as long as there is no wailing
Hadith 3157
أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الأَزْدِيُّ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنَا مَعْمَرٌ ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي وَهْبُ بْنُ كَيْسَانَ ، أَنَّ مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ عَمْرٍو ، أَخْبَرَهُ ، أَنَّ سَلَمَةَ بْنَ الأَزْرَقِ ، قَالَ : كُنْتُ جَالِسًا مَعَ ابْنِ عُمَرَ ، فَأُتِيَ بِجِنَازَةٍ يُبْكَى عَلَيْهَا ، فَعَابَ ذَلِكَ ابْنُ عُمَرَ ، وَانْتَهَرَهُنَّ ، فَقَالَ سَلَمَةُ بْنُ الأَزْرَقِ : أَشْهَدُ عَلَى أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ، أَنِّي سَمِعْتُهُ يَقُولُ : مُرَّ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِجِنَازَةٍ ، وَأَنَا مَعَهُ ، وَمَعَهُ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ ، وَنِسَاءٌ يَبْكِينَ عَلَيْهَا ، فَزَجَرَهُنَّ ، وَانْتَهَرَهُنَّ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " دَعْهُنَّ يَا عُمَرُ ، فَإِنَّ الْعَيْنَ دَامِعَةٌ ، وَالنَّفْسَ مُصَابَةٌ ، وَالْعَهْدَ قَرِيبٌ " ، قَالَ ابْنُ عُمَرَ : فَاللَّهُ وَرَسُولُهُ أَعْلَمُ .
Salamah bin Azraq narrates: I was sitting with Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) when a funeral was brought there over which people were weeping, so Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) objected to this and rebuked those women. Salamah bin Azraq said: I was present with Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), I heard him say: Once a funeral passed by the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), I was with the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) at that time, and Sayyiduna Umar bin Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) was also with him. Women were weeping over the deceased, so Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) rebuked and scolded them. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: O Umar! Let them do so, for the eye sheds tears, the body feels pain, and (the distressing event) has just occurred.
