صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب الجنائز وما يتعلق بها مقدما أو مؤخراBook of Funerals and Related Matters
فصل في حمل الجنازة وقولها - ذكر الزجر عن اتباع النساء الجنائز والخروج إليها لهن
Section on carrying the bier and its statements – Prohibition of women following or attending funerals
Hadith 3041
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو خَلِيفَةَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الْوَلِيدِ الطَّيَالِسِيُّ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ عُثْمَانَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَطِيَّةَ ، عَنْ جَدَّتِهِ أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ ، قَالَتْ : لَمَّا قَدِمَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ الْمَدِينَةَ ، جَمَعَ نِسَاءَ الأَنْصَارِ فِي بَيْتٍ ، فَأَرْسَلَ إِلَيْنَا عُمَرَ بْنَ الْخَطَّابِ ، فَقَامَ عَلَى الْبَابِ فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْنَا ، فَرَدَدْنَا عَلَيْهِ السَّلامَ ، ثُمَّ قَالَ : أَنَا رَسُولُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِلَيْكُنَّ ، قَالَتْ : فَقُلْنَا مَرْحَبًا بِرَسُولِ اللَّهِ ، وَبِرَسُولِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ : " تُبَايِعْنَنِي عَلَى أَنْ لا تُشْرِكْنَ بِاللَّهِ شَيْئًا ، وَلا تَزْنِينَ ، وَلا تَسْرِقْنَ . . . الآيَةُ " ؟ قَالَتْ : فَقُلْنَا : نَعَمْ ، قَالَتْ : فَمَدَّ يَدَهُ مِنْ خَارِجِ الْبَيْتِ ، وَمَدَدْنَا أَيْدِيَنَا مِنْ دَاخِلِ الْبَيْتِ ، ثُمَّ قَالَ : اللَّهُمَّ اشْهَدْ ، قَالَتْ : " وَأَمَرَنَا بِالْعِيدِ ، وَأَنْ نُخْرِجَ فِيهِ الْحُيَّضَ وَالْعُتَّقَ ، وَلا جُمُعَةَ عَلَيْنَا ، وَنَهَانَا عَنِ اتِّبَاعِ الْجَنَازَةِ " ، قَالَ إِسْمَاعِيلُ : فَسَأَلْتُ جَدَّتِي عَنْ قَوْلِهِ : وَلا يَعْصِينَكَ فِي مَعْرُوفٍ سورة الممتحنة آية 12 ، قَالَتْ : " نَهَانَا عَنِ النِّيَاحَةِ " .
Lady Umm Atiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates: When the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) arrived in Madinah, some women of the Ansar gathered in a house. The Prophet (peace be upon him) sent Umar ibn Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) to us; he stood at the door and greeted us with salam. We replied to the salam. Then he said: I am the messenger of Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) who has come to you. Lady Umm Atiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates: We said: Welcome to Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) and to the messenger of Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him). Then Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: You women should pledge that you will not associate anything with Allah, nor commit adultery, nor steal. He recited this verse. Lady Umm Atiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates: We replied: Yes. Lady Umm Atiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates: He extended his hand from the outer part of the house and we extended our hands from the inner part of the house. Then he said: O Allah! Bear witness. Lady Umm Atiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates: The Prophet (peace be upon him) commanded us regarding Eid that we should bring out even the adult and free women on this occasion, but Jumu’ah is not obligatory upon us women, and the Prophet (peace be upon him) forbade us from accompanying funeral processions. The narrator named Ismail says: I asked my grandmother (Lady Umm Atiyyah, may Allah be pleased with her) about the statement of Allah the Exalted: “And that they will not disobey you in what is right.” She said: The Prophet (peace be upon him) forbade us from wailing.
