صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب الجنائز وما يتعلق بها مقدما أو مؤخراBook of Funerals and Related Matters
باب ما جاء في الصبر وثواب الأمراض والأعراض - ذكر الإخبار بأن المرء عندما امتحن بالمصائب عليه زجر النفس عن الخروج إلى ما لا يرضي الله جل وعلا دون دمع العين وحزن القلب
Patience and Reward for Illness and Afflictions - Clarification that one should restrain oneself from displeasing Allah, though tears and sorrow are allowed
Hadith 2902
أَخْبَرَنَا عِمْرَانُ بْنُ مُوسَى بْنِ مُجَاشِعٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا هُدْبَةُ بْنُ خَالِدٍ الْقَيْسِيُّ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ الْمُغِيرَةِ ، عَنْ ثَابِتٍ ، عَنِ أَنَسٍ ، أَنّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ : " وُلِدَ لِيَ اللَّيْلَةَ غُلامٌ ، فَسَمَّيْتُهُ بِأَبِي إِبْرَاهِيمَ " ، ثُمَّ دَفَعَهُ إِلَى امْرَأَةِ قَيْنٍ بِالْمَدِينَةِ ، فَأَتْبَعَهُ ، فَانْتَهَى إِلَى أَبَى سَيْفٍ وَهُوَ يَنْفُخُ فِي كِيرِهِ ، وَالْبَيْتُ مَمْتَلِئٌ دُخَانًا ، فَأَسْرَعْتُ الْمَشْيَ بَيْنَ يَدَيْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقُلْتُ : يَا أَبَا سَيْفٍ جَاءَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ، فَأَمْسَكَ ، فَدَعَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ بِالصَّبِيِّ ، فَضَمَّهُ إِلَيْهِ ، وَقَالَ مَا شَاءَ اللَّهُ أَنْ يَقُولَ قَالَ : فَلَقَدْ رَأَيْتُهُ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ وَهُوَ يَكِيدُ بِنَفْسِهِ بَيْنَ يَدَيْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، وَعَيْنَاهُ تَدْمَعُ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " تَدْمَعُ الْعَيْنُ وَيَحْزَنُ الْقَلْبُ ، وَلا نَقُولُ إِلا مَا يَرْضَى رَبَّنَا وَإِنَّا بِكَ يَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ لَمَحْزُونُونَ " .
Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates this statement of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): "A child was born to me last night, and I have named him Ibrahim after my forefather." (The narrator states:) Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) entrusted him to the wife of a goldsmith in Madinah. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) went to her; when he reached Abu Saif's house, he was kindling a fire in his furnace at that time. The whole house was filled with smoke. I hurried ahead of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and informed: O Abu Saif! The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is coming. So he stopped. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) called for the child, embraced him, and said whatever Allah willed. The narrator states: After that, I saw that the child was taking his last breaths in front of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), and tears were flowing from the eyes of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). He said: Tears are flowing from the eyes, the heart is grieved, and we say only that which pleases our Lord. And O Ibrahim! We are grieved because of you."
