صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب الصلاةBook of Prayer
باب المسافر - ذكر الأمر بإرضاء المرء أهله عند قدومه من سفره
Chapter on the Traveler - Instruction to please one’s family upon returning from travel
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Hadith 2717
أَخْبَرَنَا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ أَبِي مَعْشَرٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْوَهَّابِ الثَّقَفِيُّ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا عُبَيْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ عُمَرَ ، عَنْ وَهْبِ بْنِ كَيْسَانَ ، عَنْ جَابِرٍ ، قَالَ : خَرَجْتُ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي غَزَاةٍ ، فَقَالَ : " تَزَوَّجْتَ ؟ " قُلْتُ : نَعَمْ ، قَالَ : " بِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا ؟ " قُلْتُ : بَلْ ثَيِّبًا ، قَالَ : " فَهَلا جَارِيَةً تُلاعِبُهَا وَتُلاعِبُكَ ؟ " قُلْتُ : إِنَّ لِي أَخَوَاتٍ ، فَأَحْبَبْتُ أَنْ أَتَزَوَّجَ امْرَأَةً تَجْمَعُهُنَّ وَتُمَشِّطُهُنَّ وَتَقُومُ عَلَيْهِنَّ ، قَالَ : " أَمَا إِنَّكَ قَادِمٌ ، فَإِذَا قَدِمْتَ فَالْكَيْسَ الْكَيْسَ " ، قَالَ أَبُو حَاتِمٍ : الْكَيْسُ أَرَادَ بِهِ الْجِمَاعَ .
Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: I set out with the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) to participate in a military expedition. He asked: Have you gotten married? I replied: Yes. He asked: To a virgin or to a previously married woman? I replied: Rather, to a previously married woman (i.e., a widow or a divorced woman). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Why did you not marry a young girl so that you could play with her and she could play with you? I replied: I have sisters, and I preferred to marry a woman who would look after them, comb their hair, and take care of them. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Now you are returning, so when you go home, act wisely. (Imam Ibn Hibban, may Allah have mercy on him, says:) By the word "wisely" is meant to have intercourse.
