صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب الحظر والإباحةBook of Prohibitions and Permissions
باب ما يكره من الكلام وما لا يكره - ذكر وصف هذين الرجلين اللذين قال أحدهما لصاحبه ما قال-Chapter on Disliked and Permissible Speech – On the description of the two men, one of whom said this to the other
Hadith 5712
اُردوEn
أَخْبَرَنَا أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو خَلِيفَةَ ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الْوَلِيدِ الطَّيَالِسِيُّ ، حَدَّثَنَا عِكْرِمَةُ بْنُ عَمَّارٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا ضَمْضَمُ بْنُ جَوْسٍ ، قَالَ : دَخَلْتُ مَسْجِدَ الرَّسُولِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَإِذَا أَنَا بِشَيْخٍ مُصَفِّرٍ رَأْسَهُ ، بَرَّاقِ الثَّنَايَا ، مَعَهُ رَجُلٌ أَدْعَجُ ، جَمِيلُ الْوَجْهِ ، شَابٌّ ، فَقَالَ الشَّيْخُ : يَا يَمَامِيُّ تَعَالَ ، لا تَقُولَنَّ لِرَجُلٍ أَبَدًا لا يَغْفِرُ اللَّهُ لَكَ ، وَاللَّهِ لا يُدْخِلُكَ اللَّهُ الْجَنَّةَ أَبَدًا ، قُلْتُ : وَمَنْ أَنْتَ ؟ يَرْحَمُكَ اللَّهُ ! قَالَ : أَنَا أَبُو هُرَيْرَةَ ، قُلْتُ : إِنَّ هَذِهِ لَكَلِمَةٌ يَقُولُهَا أَحَدُنَا لِبَعْضِ أَهْلِهِ أَوْ لِخَادِمِهِ إِذَا غَضِبَ عَلَيْهَا ، قَالَ : فَلا تَقُلْهَا ، إِنِّي سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقُولُ : " كَانَ رَجُلانِ مِنْ بَنِي إِسْرَائِيلَ مُتَوَاخِيَيْنِ ، أَحَدُهُمَا مُجْتَهِدٌ فِي الْعِبَادَةِ ، وَالآخَرُ مُذْنِبٌ ، فَأَبْصَرَ الْمُجْتَهِدُ الْمُذْنِبَ عَلَى ذَنْبٍ ، فَقَالَ لَهُ : أَقْصِرْ ، فَقَالَ لَهُ : خَلِّنِي وَرَبِّي ، قَالَ : وَكَانَ يُعِيدُ ذَلِكَ عَلَيْهِ ، وَيَقُولُ : خَلِّنِي وَرَبِّي ، حَتَّى وَجَدَهُ يَوْمًا عَلَى ذَنْبٍ ، فَاسْتَعْظَمَهُ ، فَقَالَ : وَيْحَكَ أَقْصِرْ ! قَالَ : خَلِّنِي وَرَبِّي ، أَبُعِثْتَ عَلَيَّ رَقِيبًا ؟ ! فَقَالَ : وَاللَّهِ لا يَغْفِرُ اللَّهُ لَكَ أَبَدًا ، أَوْ قَالَ : لا يُدْخِلُكَ اللَّهُ الْجَنَّةَ أَبَدًا ، فَبُعِثَ إِلَيْهِمَا مَلَكٌ فَقَبَضَ أَرْوَاحَهُمَا ، فَاجْتَمَعَا عِنْدَهُ جَلَّ وَعَلا ، فَقَالَ رَبُّنَا لِلْمُجْتَهِدِ : " أَكُنْتَ عَالِمًا ؟ أَمْ كُنْتَ قَادِرًا عَلَى مَا فِي يَدِي ؟ أَمْ تَحْظُرُ رَحْمَتِي عَلَى عَبْدِي ؟ اذْهَبْ إِلَى الْجَنَّةِ " يُرِيدُ الْمُذْنِبَ وَقَالَ لِلآخَرِ : " اذْهَبُوا بِهِ إِلَى النَّارِ ، فَوَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ لَتَكَلَّمَ بِكَلِمَةٍ أَوْبَقَتْ دُنْيَاهُ وَآخِرَتَهُ " .
Sayyiduna Dhamdham bin Jaus (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: I entered the mosque of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and there was an elderly man whose hair was dyed yellow and whose teeth were extremely bright. With him was a young man who was very handsome and youthful. The old man said: O Yamami, come forward. Never say to anyone, "May Allah not forgive you." By Allah, Allah will never admit you to Paradise. I asked, "Who are you? May Allah have mercy on you." He replied: "I am Abu Hurairah." I said: "Such words are sometimes used by one of us for his wife or servant when he expresses anger at them." Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "Do not say this, because I heard the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) say: 'Among the Children of Israel there were two men who were brothers to each other. One of them was devoted to worship and the other was a sinner. The worshipper saw the sinner committing a sin and said to him: 'Reduce this.' The other man replied: 'Leave this matter between me and my Lord.' The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: The worshipper repeated his words to him, and the other man gave the same reply: 'Leave me and my Lord.' Until one day, the worshipper saw him committing a sin and considered his sin to be great. He said: 'Woe to you! Refrain from sinning.' The other man said: 'Leave me and my Lord. Were you sent as a watcher over me?' The worshipper said: 'By Allah, Allah will never forgive you.' (The narrator is unsure, perhaps these were the words.) Or he said: 'Allah will never admit you to Paradise.' (The Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said:) Then an angel was sent to both of them, who took their souls. They both appeared before Allah, the Exalted. The Lord asked the worshipper: 'Are you a scholar, or do you have power over what is in My control, or do you prevent My mercy from reaching My servant?' (Then He said to the sinner:) 'Go to Paradise.' (The narrator says: That is, Allah said this to the sinful person.) And to the other He said: 'Take him to Hell.' (The Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, or perhaps Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah, may Allah be pleased with him, said:) 'By Him in Whose hand is my soul, he uttered a word that destroyed his world and his Hereafter.'"
