Hadith 5348

أَخْبَرَنَا عُمَرُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الْهَمْدَانِيُّ ، حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ بَزِيعٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا الْفُضَيْلُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ ، حَدَّثَنَا عُمَرُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ ، أَخْبَرَنِي أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الْحَارِثِ بْنِ هِشَامٍ ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الْحَارِثِ ، قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ عُثْمَانَ بْنَ عَفَّانَ خَطِيبًا ، سَمِعْتُ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، يَقُولُ : " اجْتَنِبُوا أُمَّ الْخَبَائِثِ ، فَإِنَّهُ كَانَ رَجُلٌ مِمَّنْ قَبْلَكُمْ يَتَعَبَّدُ ، وَيَعْتَزِلُ النَّاسَ ، فَعَلِقَتْهُ امْرَأَةٌ ، فَأَرْسَلَتْ إِلَيْهِ خَادِمًا ، فَقَالَتْ : إِنَّا نَدْعُوكَ لِشَهَادَةٍ ، فَدَخَلَ فَطَفِقَتْ كُلَّمَا يَدْخُلُ بَابًا ، أَغْلَقَتْهُ دُونَهُ حَتَّى أَفْضَى إِلَى امْرَأَةٍ وَضِيئَةٍ جَالِسَةٍ ، وَعِنْدَهَا غُلامٌ وَبَاطِيَةٌ فِيهَا خَمْرٌ ، فَقَالَتْ : إِنَّا لَمْ نَدْعُكَ لِشَهَادَةٍ ، وَلَكِنْ دَعَوْتُكَ لِتَقْتُلَ هَذَا الْغُلامَ ، أَوْ تَقَعَ عَلَيَّ ، أَوْ تَشْرَبَ كَأْسًا مِنْ هَذَا الْخَمْرِ ، فَإِنْ أَبَيْتَ ، صِحْتُ بِكَ وَفَضَحْتُكَ ، قَالَ : فَلَمَّا رَأَى أَنَّهُ لا بُدَّ لَهُ مِنْ ذَلِكَ ، قَالَ : اسْقِينِي كَأْسًا مِنْ هَذَا الْخَمْرِ ، فَسَقَتْهُ كَأْسًا مِنَ الْخَمْرِ ، فَقَالَ : زِيدِينِي ، فَلَمْ يَزَلْ حَتَّى وَقَعَ عَلَيْهَا ، وَقَتَلَ النَّفْسَ ، فَاجْتَنِبُوا الْخَمْرَ ، فَإِنَّهُ وَاللَّهِ لا يَجْتَمِعُ الإِيمَانُ وَإِدْمَانُ الْخَمْرِ فِي صَدْرِ رَجُلٍ أَبَدًا ، لَيُوشِكَنَّ أَحَدُهُمَا يُخْرِجُ صَاحِبَهُ " ، قَالَ أَبُو حَاتِمٍ : عُمَرُ بْنُ سَعِيدِ بْنِ سُرَيْجٍ هَذَا ، هُوَ مِنْ ثِقَاتِ أَهْلِ الْمَدِينَةِ ، رَوَى عَنْهُ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ الْمَدَنِيُّ .
Abdur Rahman bin Harith narrates: I heard Sayyiduna Uthman Ghani (may Allah be pleased with him) delivering a sermon. He said: I heard the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) say: Avoid the root of all evils, for there was a man among the people before you who used to worship and kept himself apart from the people. A woman fell in love with him. She sent her servant to him and said: We are calling you regarding a testimony. As soon as he entered her house, the doors were closed upon him until he reached a woman who was extremely beautiful and was sitting. There was also a boy with her and a decanter in which there was wine. The woman said: We did not call you for any testimony, rather I called you so that you either kill this boy, or commit adultery with me, or drink a cup of this wine. If you do not obey me, I will scream loudly and disgrace you. The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: When the man saw that there was no other way out, he said: Give me a cup of wine. The woman gave him a cup of wine. He said: Give me a little more. After that, he kept drinking wine until he committed adultery with the woman and also killed the boy. (The Prophet Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him, said:) So avoid wine, for by Allah, faith and wine-drinking can never coexist in a person's heart. One of them will expel the other.

(Imam Ibn Hibban, may Allah have mercy on him, says:) The narrator Umar bin Sa'id Sarij is among the trustworthy narrators of the people of Madinah, from whom Abdur Rahman bin Ishaq Madani has narrated traditions.
Hadith Reference صحیح ابن حبان / كتاب الأشربة / 5348
Hadith Grading فضيلة الشيخ الإمام محمد ناصر الدين الألباني ضعيف مرفوعاً، صحيح موقوفاً - «الأحاديث المختارة» (320). فضيلة الشيخ العلّامة شُعيب الأرناؤوط إسناده ضعيف
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