صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب البر والإحسانBook of Righteousness and Goodness
باب صلة الرحم وقطعها - ذكر معونة الله جل وعلا الواصل رحمه إذا قطعتهChapter on Ties of Kinship and Severing Them – Allah’s help for one who maintains family ties even if relatives cut him off.
Hadith 450
اُردوEn
أَخْبَرَنَا الْفَضْلُ بْنُ الْحُبَابِ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا الْقَعْنَبِيُّ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْعَزِيزِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ ، عَنِ الْعَلاءِ ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ، قَالَ : أَتَى رَجُلٌ ، فقَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّ لِي قَرَابَةً أَصِلُهُمْ وَيَقْطَعُونِي ، وَيُسِيئُونَ إِلَيَّ وَأُحْسِنُ إِلَيْهِمْ ، وَيَجْهَلُونَ عَلَيَّ ، وَأَحْلُمُ عَنْهُمْ ، فقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " لَئِنْ كَانَ كَمَا تَقُولُ ، فَكَأَنَّمَا تُسِفُّهُمُ الْمَلَّ ، وَلا يَزَالُ مَعَكَ مِنَ اللَّهِ ظُهَيْرٌ ، مَا دُمْتَ عَلَى ذَلِكَ " الْمَلُّ رَمَادٌ يَكُونُ فِيهِ الشَّطْبَةُ .
Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: A man came and said, "O Messenger of Allah! I have some relatives with whom I maintain good relations, but they treat me badly. They behave badly towards me, yet I behave well towards them. They act ignorantly towards me, but I deal with them with forbearance." The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If the situation is as you describe, then you are throwing ashes upon them. As long as you continue doing so, Allah Almighty's help will remain with you."
Imam Ibn Hibban (may Allah have mercy on him) said: The word "al-mil" used in the text of the narration refers to such ashes in which there are pieces of embers (i.e., burning coals).
Imam Ibn Hibban (may Allah have mercy on him) said: The word "al-mil" used in the text of the narration refers to such ashes in which there are pieces of embers (i.e., burning coals).
