صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب الرضاعBook of Breastfeeding
باب النفقة - ذكر خبر أوهم من لم يحكم صناعة العلم أن مال الابن يكون للأب-A narration that some mistakenly thought means a son’s wealth belongs to the father
Hadith 4262
اُردوEn
أَخْبَرَنَا إِِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِِبْرَاهِيمَ التَّاجِرُ بِمَرْوَ ، حَدَّثَنَا حُصَيْنُ بْنُ الْمُثَنَّى الْمَرْوَزِيُّ ، حَدَّثَنَا الْفَضْلُ بْنُ مُوسَى ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ كَيْسَانَ ، عَنْ عَطَاءٍ ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا ، أَنَّ رَجُلا أَتَى رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يُخَاصِمُ أَبَاهُ فِي دَيْنٍ لَهُ عَلَيْهِ ، فَقَالَ نَبِيُّ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " أَنْتَ وَمَالُكَ لأَبِيكَ " . قَالَ أَبُو حَاتِمٍ : مَعْنَاهُ أَنَّهُ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ زَجَرَ عَنْ مُعَامَلَتِهِ أَبَاهُ بِمَا يُعَامِلُ بِهِ الأَجْنَبِيِّينَ ، وَأَمْرَ بِبِرِّهِ ، وَالرِّفْقِ بِهِ فِي الْقَوْلِ وَالْفِعْلِ مَعًا إِِلَى أَنْ يَصِلَ إِِلَيْهِ مَالُهُ ، فَقَالَ لَهُ : أَنْتَ وَمَالُكَ لأَبِيكَ ، لا أَنَّ مَالَ الابْنِ يَمْلِكُهُ أَبُوهُ فِي حَيَاتِهِ عِنْ غَيْرِ طَيْبِ نَفْسٍ مِنَ الابْنِ بِهِ .
Sayyidah Aisha Siddiqa (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates: A man came to the service of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). He was having a dispute with his father regarding a debt that he was to take from his father. So the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "You and your wealth belong to your father." (Imam Ibn Hibban, may Allah have mercy on him, says): This means: The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) rebuked this person for behaving with his father in a manner that is adopted with strangers, and the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) ordered him to do good to his father and to adopt gentleness in conversation and behavior with his father, to the extent that he (peace be upon him) combined this person's wealth with his father's wealth and said to him: "You and your wealth belong to your father." By this is meant that the father becomes the owner of his son's wealth during the son's lifetime, even if the son is not pleased with this in this regard.
