صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب النكاحBook of Marriage
- باب معاشرة الزوجين - ذكر الزجر عن ضرب النساء إذ خير الناس خيرهم لأهلهChapter: Marital relations – Forbidding beating women, as the best are those best to their families
Hadith 4186
اُردوEn
أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ بْنِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ مَوْلَى ثَقِيفٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ الدَّارِمِيُّ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَاصِمٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا جَعْفَرُ بْنُ يَحْيَى بْنِ ثَوْبَانَ ، عَنْ عَمِّهِ عُمَارَةِ بْنِ ثَوْبَانَ ، عَنْ عَطَاءٍ ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ، أَنَّ الرِّجَالَ اسْتَأْذَنُوا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي ضَرْبِ النِّسَاءِ ، فَأَذِنَ لَهُمْ ، فَضَرَبُوهُنَّ ، فَبَاتَ فَسَمِعَ صَوْتًا عَالِيًا ، فَقَالَ : " مَا هَذَا ؟ " ، قَالُوا : أَذِنْتَ لِلرِّجَالِ فِي ضَرْبِ النِّسَاءِ ، فَضَرَبُوهُنَّ ، فَنَهَاهُمْ ، وَقَالَ : " خَيْرُكُمْ خَيْرُكُمْ لأَهْلِهِ ، وَأَنَا مِنْ خَيْرِكُمْ لأَهْلِي " .
Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates: Some men asked the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) for permission to hit women (i.e., their wives), so the Prophet (peace be upon him) granted them permission. Those people beat their wives. During the night, the Prophet (peace be upon him) heard loud voices. He inquired: What is the reason for this? People informed him: You gave men permission to beat women, so those men beat the women (because of which the women started crying and this is the sound). So the Prophet (peace be upon him) forbade the men from this and he (peace be upon him) said: "The best among you is the one who is best to his wife, and I am the best among you to my wives."
