صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب النكاحBook of Marriage
- باب الولي - ذكر نفي جواز عقد الولي نكاح البالغة عليها إلا باستئمارهاChapter: The guardian – Rejection of a guardian marrying off an adult woman without her consent
Hadith 4087
اُردوEn
أَخْبَرَنَا الْفَضْلُ بْنُ الْحُبَابِ ، حَدَّثَنَا الْقَعْنَبِيُّ عَنْ مَالِكٍ ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ الْفَضْلِ ، عَنْ نَافِعِ بْنِ جُبَيْرِ بْنِ مُطْعِمٍ ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ، أَنّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ : " الأَيِّمُ أَحَقُّ بِنَفْسِهَا مِنْ وَلِيِّهَا ، وَالْبِكْرُ تُسْتَأْذَنُ فِي نَفْسِهَا ، وَإِذْنُهَا صُمَاتُهَا " ، قَالَ أَبُو حَاتِمٍ : قَوْلُهُ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " الأَيِّمُ أَحَقُّ بِنَفْسِهَا " أَرَادَ بِهِ : أَحَقُّ بِنَفْسِهَا مِنْ وَلِيِّهَا بِأَنْ تَخْتَارَ مِنَ الأَزْوَاجِ مَنْ شَاءَتْ ، فَتَقُولُ : أَرْضَى فُلانًا ، وَلا أَرْضَى فُلانًا ، لا أَنَّ عَقْدَ النِّكَاحِ إِلَيْهِنَّ دُونَ الأَوْلِيَاءِ .
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates this statement of the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): "A widow has more right regarding herself than her guardian, and the permission of a virgin girl should be sought regarding herself, and her silence is her permission." (Imam Ibn Hibban, may Allah have mercy on him, says:) The statement of the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), "A widow has more right regarding herself," means: She has more right over herself than her guardian; she may marry whomever she wishes. She will say: I am pleased to marry so-and-so, and I am not pleased to marry so-and-so. This does not mean that the matter of conducting the marriage contract will be entrusted to her and not to her guardians.
