صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب الجنائز وما يتعلق بها مقدما أو مؤخراBook of Funerals and Related Matters
فصل في النياحة ونحوها - ذكر إباحة بكاء المرء عند فقده ولده أو ولد ولده ما لم يخالط البكاء حالة التسخطSection on wailing and similar acts – Permitting crying for one’s child or grandchild as long as it is not accompanied by discontent
Hadith 3158
اُردوEn
أَخْبَرَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَلِيِّ بْنِ الْمُثَنَّى ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو خَيْثَمَةَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ خَازِمٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا عَاصِمٌ ، عَنْ أَبِي عُثْمَانَ ، عَنْ أَسَامَةَ بْنِ زَيْدٍ ، قَالَ : أَمَرَنِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَأَتَيْتُهُ بِابْنَةِ زَيْنَبَ وَنَفْسُهَا تَقَعْقَعُ كَأَنَّهَا فِي شَنٍّ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " لِلَّهِ مَا أَخَذَ ، وَلَهُ مَا أَعْطَى ، وَكُلٌّ إِلَى أَجَلٍ " قَالَ : فَدَمَعَتْ عَيْنَاهُ ، فَقَالَ لَهُ سَعْدُ بْنُ عُبَادَةَ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَتَرِقُّ ، أَوْلَمْ تَنْهَ عَنِ الْبُكَاءِ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " إِنَّمَا هِيَ رَحْمَةٌ جَعَلَهَا اللَّهُ فِي قُلُوبِ عِبَادِهِ ، وَإِنَّمَا يَرْحَمُ اللَّهَ مِنْ عِبَادِهِ الرُّحَمَاءَ " .
Sayyiduna Usama bin Zaid (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates: The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) instructed me, and I went with him to his daughter, Sayyida Zainab (may Allah be pleased with her), who was breathing her last. Her breath was labored. The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whatever Allah takes belongs to Him, and whatever He gives also belongs to Him, and everything has an appointed time. The narrator states: Tears began to flow from the eyes of the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him). Sayyiduna Sa’d bin Ubadah (may Allah be pleased with him) submitted to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): O Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon you)! Are you weeping? Did you not forbid weeping? The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: This is mercy, which Allah has placed in the hearts of His servants, and Allah only shows mercy to those of His servants who are merciful.
