صحیح ابن حبان
Ibn Hibban
كتاب الجنائز وما يتعلق بها مقدما أو مؤخراBook of Funerals and Related Matters
فصل في النياحة ونحوها - ذكر الزجر عن إسعاد المرأة النساء على البكاء عند مصيبة يمتحن بهاSection on wailing and similar acts – Warning against women encouraging each other to cry at calamities
Hadith 3144
اُردوEn
أَخْبَرَنَا عِمْرَانُ بْنُ مُوسَى بْنِ مُجَاشِعٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا عُثْمَانُ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ ، عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي نَجِيحٍ ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ عُبَيْدِ بْنِ عُمَيْرٍ ، قَالَ : قَالَتْ أُمُّ سَلَمَةَ : لَمَّا مَاتَ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ قُلْتُ : غَرِيبٌ فِي أَرْضِ غُرْبَةٍ ، لأَبْكِيَنَّ بُكَاءً يُتَحَدَّثُ عَنْهُ ، وَكُنْتُ قَدْ هَيَّأْتُ الْبُكَاءُ عَلَيْهِ ، إِذْ أَقْبَلَتِ امْرَأَةٌ مِنَ الْمُسْعِدَاتِ تُرِيدُ أَنْ تُسْعِدَنِي ، فَاسْتَقْبَلَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَقَالَ : " تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تُدْخِلِي الشَّيْطَانَ بَيْتًا أَخْرَجَهُ اللَّهُ مِنْهُ ؟ " قَالَتْ : فَكَفَفْتُ عَنِ الْبُكَاءِ ، وَلَمْ أَبْكِ .
Ubaid bin Umair narrates: Sayyida Umm Salama (may Allah be pleased with her) stated that when Sayyiduna Abu Salama (may Allah be pleased with him) passed away, I said: He was a stranger who died far from his homeland. I will weep over him in such a way that it will become known. I even prepared myself to weep over him. Then a woman came who used to assist in weeping; she also intended to join me. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) came to them and said: Do you want to let Satan enter a house from which Allah Almighty has expelled him? Sayyida Umm Salama (may Allah be pleased with her) states: So I refrained from weeping, and I did not weep.
