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صحيح الادب المفرد
Sahih Adab al-Mufrad
Part One: Ahadith 1 to 249
باب يبر والديه ما لم يكن معصيةObeying parents unless in sin
Hadith 14
اُردوEn
14/18 (حسن) عَنْ أَبِي الدَّرْدَاءِ قَالَ: أَوْصَانِي رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِتِسْعٍ: "لَا تُشْرِكْ بِاللَّهِ شَيْئًا وَإِنْ قُطِّعْتَ أَوْ حُرِّقْتَ، وَلَا تَتْرُكَنَّ الصَّلَاةَ الْمَكْتُوبَةَ مُتَعَمِّدًا؛ وَمَنْ تَرَكَهَا مُتَعَمِّدًا بَرِئَتْ مِنْهُ الذِّمَّةُ (2) ، وَلَا تَشْرَبَنَّ الْخَمْرَ؛ فَإِنَّهَا مِفْتَاحُ كُلِّ شَرٍّ، وَأَطِعْ وَالِدَيْكَ، وَإِنْ أَمَرَاكَ أَنْ تَخْرُجَ مِنْ دنياك؛ فاخرج لهما، ولا تُنَازِعَنَّ وُلَاةَ الْأَمْرِ، وَإِنْ رَأَيْتَ أَنَّكَ أَنْتَ (1) ، وَلَا تفرِر مِنَ الزَّحْفِ؛ وَإِنْ هَلَكْتَ وَفَرَّ أَصْحَابُكَ، وَأَنْفِقْ مِنْ طَولك عَلَى أَهْلِكَ، وَلَا تَرْفَعْ عَصَاكَ عَنْ أَهْلِكَ، وَأَخِفْهُمْ فِي اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ" (2) .
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Darda’ (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) advised me regarding nine things. They are: Even if you are cut into pieces or burned, do not associate anything with Allah; never deliberately abandon the obligatory prayer, for whoever deliberately abandons it, the protection (of Allah and His Messenger) is lifted from him; never drink alcohol, for it is the key to every evil; obey your parents, even if they command you to give up your worldly possessions (meaning, hand over all your belongings to them), then do so for their sake; do not dispute with the rulers, even if you think you are entitled (i.e., you alone are upon the truth); never flee from the battlefield, even if you are killed and your companions flee; spend on your family from your wealth; do not withhold your stick from your family (meaning, maintain the disciplinary rod for their upbringing); and keep warning them about Allah, the Mighty and Majestic.
