Hadith 280
أَخْبَرَنَا
قُتَيْبَةُ ، قال : حَدَّثَنَا
يَزِيدُ وَهُوَ ابْنُ الْمِقْدَامِ بْنِ شُرَيْحِ بْنِ هَانِئٍ ، عَنْ
أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ
شُرَيْحٍ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا ، سَأَلْتُهَا : هَلْ تَأْكُلُ الْمَرْأَةُ مَعَ زَوْجِهَا وَهِيَ طَامِثٌ ؟ قالت : نَعَمْ ، كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ " يَدْعُونِي فَآكُلُ مَعَهُ وَأَنَا عَارِكٌ ، وَكَانَ يَأْخُذُ الْعَرْقَ فَيُقْسِمُ عَلَيَّ فِيهِ فَأَعْتَرِقُ مِنْهُ ثُمَّ أَضَعُهُ فَيَأْخُذُهُ فَيَعْتَرِقُ مِنْهُ وَيَضَعُ فَمَهُ حَيْثُ وَضَعْتُ فَمِي مِنَ الْعَرْقِ ، وَيَدْعُو بِالشَّرَابِ فَيُقْسِمُ عَلَيَّ فِيهِ قَبْلَ أَنْ يَشْرَبَ مِنْهُ فَآخُذُهُ فَأَشْرَبُ مِنْهُ ثُمَّ أَضَعُهُ فَيَأْخُذُهُ فَيَشْرَبُ مِنْهُ وَيَضَعُ فَمَهُ حَيْثُ وَضَعْتُ فَمِي مِنَ الْقَدَحِ " .
´It was narrated from Shuraih that he asked 'Aishah:` "Can a woman eat with her husband while she is menstruating? She said: 'Yes. The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) would call me to eat with him while I was menstruating. He would take a piece of bone on which some bits of meat were left and insist that I take it first, so I would nibble a little from it, then put it down. Then he would take it and nibble from it, and he would put his mouth where mine had been on the bone. Then he would ask for a drink and insist that I take it first before he drank from it. So I would take it and drink from it, then put it down, then he would take it and drink from it, putting his mouth where mine had been on the cup.'"
Hadith 377
أَخْبَرَنَا
قُتَيْبَةُ بْنُ سَعِيدِ بْنِ جَمِيلِ بْنِ طَرِيفٍ ، قال : أَنْبَأَنَا
يَزِيدُ ابْنُ الْمِقْدَامِ بْنِ شُرَيْحِ بْنِ هَانِئٍ ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ
شُرَيْحٍ ، أَنَّهُ سَأَلَ
عَائِشَةَ : هَلْ تَأْكُلُ الْمَرْأَةُ مَعَ زَوْجِهَا وَهِيَ طَامِثٌ ؟ قَالَتْ : نَعَمْ ، كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ " يَدْعُونِي فَآكُلُ مَعَهُ وَأَنَا عَارِكٌ ، كَانَ يَأْخُذُ الْعَرْقَ فَيُقْسِمُ عَلَيَّ فِيهِ فَأَعْتَرِقُ مِنْهُ ثُمَّ أَضَعُهُ فَيَأْخُذُهُ فَيَعْتَرِقُ مِنْهُ وَيَضَعُ فَمَهُ حَيْثُ وَضَعْتُ فَمِي مِنَ الْعَرْقِ ، وَيَدْعُو بِالشَّرَابِ فَيُقْسِمُ عَلَيَّ فِيهِ مِنْ قَبْلِ أَنْ يَشْرَبَ مِنْهُ فَآخُذُهُ فَأَشْرَبُ مِنْهُ ثُمَّ أَضَعُهُ فَيَأْخُذُهُ فَيَشْرَبُ مِنْهُ وَيَضَعُ فَمَهُ حَيْثُ وَضَعْتُ فَمِي مِنَ الْقَدَحِ " .
´It was narrated from Shuraih that he asked 'Aishah:` "Can a woman eat with her husband while she is menstruating?' She said: 'Yes. The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) would call me to eat with him while I was menstruating. He would take a piece of bone on which some bits of meat were left and insist that I take it first, so I would nibble a little from it, then put it down. Then he would take it and nibble from it, and he would put his mouth where mine had been on the bone. Then he would call for a drink and insist that I take it first before he drank from it. So I would take it and drink from it, then put it down, then he would take it and drink from it, putting his mouth where mine had been on the cup.'"
Hadith 5389
أَخْبَرَنَا
قُتَيْبَةُ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
يَزِيدُ وَهُوَ ابْنُ الْمِقْدَامِ بْنِ شُرَيْحٍ , عَنْ
شُرَيْحِ بْنِ هَانِئٍ ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ
هَانِئٍ أَنَّهُ لَمَّا وَفَدَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , سَمِعَهُ وَهُمْ يَكْنُونَ هَانِئًا أَبَا الْحَكَمِ ، فَدَعَاهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , فَقَالَ لَهُ : " إِنَّ اللَّهَ هُوَ الْحَكَمُ ، وَإِلَيْهِ الْحُكْمُ ، فَلِمَ تُكَنَّى أَبَا الْحَكَمِ ؟ " ، فَقَالَ : إِنَّ قَوْمِي إِذَا اخْتَلَفُوا فِي شَيْءٍ أَتَوْنِي فَحَكَمْتُ بَيْنَهُمْ فَرَضِيَ كِلَا الْفَرِيقَيْنِ ، قَالَ : " مَا أَحْسَنَ مِنْ هَذَا , فَمَا لَكَ مِنَ الْوُلْدِ ؟ " , قَالَ لِي : شُرَيْحٌ , وَعَبْدُ اللَّهِ ، وَمُسْلِمٌ ، قَالَ : " فَمَنْ أَكْبَرُهُمْ ؟ " قَالَ : شُرَيْحٌ ، قَالَ : " فَأَنْتَ أَبُو شُرَيْحٍ " , فَدَعَا لَهُ وَلِوَلَدِهِ .
´It was narrated from Shuraih bin Hani' from his father, that:` When he came to the Messenger of Allah [SAW] and he heard them calling Hani' by the nickname of Abu Al-Hakam, the Messenger of Allah [SAW] called him and said to him: "Allah is Al-Hakam (the Judge) and judgment is His. Why are you known as Abu Al-Hakam?" He said: "If my people differ concerning something, they come to me, and I pass judgment among them, and both sides accept it." He said: "How good this is. Do you have any children?" He said: "I have Shuraih, and 'Abdullah, and Muslim." He said: "Who is the eldest of them?" He said: "Shuraih." He said: "Then you are Abu Shuraih," and he supplicated for him and his son.