Hadith 2580
´It was narrated that Qubaisah bin Mukhariq said:` "I undertook a financial responsibility. [1] Then I came to the Prophet and asked him (for help) concerning that. He said: 'Asking (for money) is not permissible except for three: A man who undertakes a financial responsibility between people; he may ask for help with that until the matter is settled, then he should refrain (from asking)."'
Hadith 2581
أَخْبَرَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ النَّضْرِ بْنِ مُسَاوِرٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
حَمَّادٌ ، عَنْ
هَارُونَ بْنِ رِئَابٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنِي
كِنَانَةُ بْنُ نُعَيْمٍ ، عَنْ
قَبِيصَةَ بْنِ مُخَارِقٍ ، قَالَ : تَحَمَّلْتُ حَمَالَةً فَأَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَسْأَلُهُ فِيهَا فَقَالَ : " أَقِمْ يَا قَبِيصَةُ ، حَتَّى تَأْتِيَنَا الصَّدَقَةُ فَنَأْمُرَ لَكَ , قَالَ : ثُمَّ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : يَا قَبِيصَةُ ! إِنَّ الصَّدَقَةَ لَا تَحِلُّ إِلَّا لِأَحَدِ ثَلَاثَةٍ : رَجُلٍ تَحَمَّلَ حَمَالَةً ، فَحَلَّتْ لَهُ الْمَسْأَلَةُ حَتَّى يُصِيبَ قِوَامًا مِنْ عَيْشٍ أَوْ سِدَادًا مِنْ عَيْشٍ ، وَرَجُلٍ أَصَابَتْهُ جَائِحَةٌ ، فَاجْتَاحَتْ مَالَهُ فَحَلَّتْ لَهُ الْمَسْأَلَةُ حَتَّى يُصِيبَهَا ثُمَّ يُمْسِكَ ، وَرَجُلٍ أَصَابَتْهُ فَاقَةٌ ، حَتَّى يَشْهَدَ ثَلَاثَةٌ مِنْ ذَوِي الْحِجَا مِنْ قَوْمِهِ قَدْ أَصَابَتْ فُلَانًا فَاقَةٌ فَحَلَّتْ لَهُ الْمَسْأَلَةُ ، حَتَّى يُصِيبَ قِوَامًا مِنْ عَيْشٍ أَوْ سِدَادًا مِنْ عَيْشٍ ، فَمَا سِوَى هَذَا مِنَ الْمَسْأَلَةِ يَا قَبِيصَةُ سُحْتٌ ، يَأْكُلُهَا صَاحِبُهَا سُحْتًا " .
´It was narrated that Qubaisah bin Mukhariq said:` "I undertook a financial responsibility, then I came to the Prophet and asked him (for help) concerning that. He said: 'Hold on, o Qubaisah! When we get some charity we will give you some.' Then the Messenger of Allah said: 'O Qubaisah, charity is not permissible except for one of three: A man who undertakes a financial responsibility, so it is permissible for him to be given charity until he finds means to make him independent and to suffice him; a man who was stricken by calamity and his wealth was destroyed, so it is permissible for him to ask for help until he has enough to keep him going, them he should refrain from asking; and a man who is stricken with poverty and three wise men from among his own people testily that so-and-so is in desperate need, then it is permissible for him to ask for help until he finds means to make him independent and to suffice him. Asking for help in cases other than these, O Qubaisah, is unlawful, and the one who takes it is consuming it unlawfully."'
Hadith 2592
أَخْبَرَنَا
هِشَامُ بْنُ عَمَّارٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
يَحْيَى وَهُوَ ابْنُ حَمْزَةَ , قَالَ : حَدَّثَنِي
الْأَوْزَاعِيُّ ، عَنْ
هَارُونَ بْنِ رِئَابٍ أَنَّهُ حَدَّثَهُ ، عَنْ
أَبِي بَكْرٍ ، عَنْ
قَبِيصَةَ بْنِ مُخَارِقٍ ، قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقُولُ : " لَا تَصْلُحُ الْمَسْأَلَةُ إِلَّا لِثَلَاثَةٍ : رَجُلٍ أَصَابَتْ مَالَهُ جَائِحَةٌ ، فَيَسْأَلُ حَتَّى يُصِيبَ سِدَادًا مِنْ عَيْشٍ ثُمَّ يُمْسِكُ ، وَرَجُلٍ تَحَمَّلَ حَمَالَةً ، فَيَسْأَلُ حَتَّى يُؤَدِّيَ إِلَيْهِمْ حَمَالَتَهُمْ ثُمَّ يُمْسِكُ عَنِ الْمَسْأَلَةِ ، وَرَجُلٍ يَحْلِفُ ثَلَاثَةُ نَفَرٍ مِنْ قَوْمِهِ مِنْ ذَوِي الْحِجَا بِاللَّهِ لَقَدْ حَلَّتِ الْمَسْأَلَةُ لِفُلَانٍ ، فَيَسْأَلُ حَتَّى يُصِيبَ قِوَامًا مِنْ مَعِيشَةٍ ثُمَّ يُمْسِكُ عَنِ الْمَسْأَلَةِ ، فَمَا سِوَى ذَلِكَ سُحْتٌ " .
´It was narrated that Qabisah bin Mukhariq said:` "I heard the Messenger of Allah says: 'It is not right to ask (for help) except in three cases: A man whose wealth has been destroyed by some calamity, so he asks until he gets enough to keep him going, then he refrains from asking: a man who undertakes a financial responsibility, and asks for help until he pays off whatever needs to be paid; and a man concerning whom three wise men from his own people swear by Allah that it is permissible for so-an-so to ask for help, so he asks until he has enough to be independent of means, then he refrains from asking. Apart from that. (asking) is unlawful."'
Hadith 3231
أَخْبَرَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيل بْنِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
يَزِيدُ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ , وَغَيْرُهُ , عَنْ
هَارُونَ بْنِ رِئَابٍ ، عَنْ
عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُبَيْدِ بْنِ عُمَيْرٍ ,
وَعَبْدِ الْكَرِيمِ , عَنْ
عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُبَيْدِ بْنِ عُمَيْرٍ ، عَنْ
ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ , عَبْدُ الْكَرِيمِ يَرْفَعُهُ إِلَى ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ , وَهَارُونُ لَمْ يَرْفَعْهُ ، قَالَا : جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ : إِنَّ عِنْدِي امْرَأَةً ، هِيَ مِنْ أَحَبِّ النَّاسِ إِلَيَّ ، وَهِيَ لَا تَمْنَعُ يَدَ لَامِسٍ ، قَالَ : " طَلِّقْهَا " , قَالَ : لَا أَصْبِرُ عَنْهَا ، قَالَ : " اسْتَمْتِعْ بِهَا " , قَالَ أَبُو عَبْد الرَّحْمَنِ : هَذَا الْحَدِيثُ لَيْسَ بِثَابِتٍ , وَعَبْدُ الْكَرِيمِ لَيْسَ بِالْقَوِيِّ ، وَهَارُونُ بْنُ رِئَابٍ أَثْبَتُ مِنْهُ , وَقَدْ أَرْسَلَ الْحَدِيثَ وَهَارُونُ ثِقَةٌ ، وَحَدِيثُهُ أَوْلَى بِالصَّوَابِ مِنْ حَدِيثِ عَبْدِ الْكَرِيمِ .
´Narrated Ibn 'Abbas:` It was narrated from Ibn 'Abbas that a man came to the Messenger of Allah and said: "I have a wife who is one of the most beloved of the people to me, but she does not object if anyone touches her." He said: "Divorce her." He said: "I cannot do without her." He said: "Then stay with her as much as you need to."
Hadith 3495
´It was narrated from Ibn 'Abbas that a man said:` "O Messenger of Allah, I have a wife who does not object if anyone touches her." He said: "Divorce her." He said: "I cannot live without her." He said: "Then keep her."