Hadith 368
´It was narrated that Muhammad said:` "Umm 'Atiyah said: 'We used not to regard yellowish and brownish discharge as anything important.'"
Hadith 390
أَخْبَرَنَا
عَمْرُو بْنُ زُرَارَةَ ، قال : أَنْبَأَنَا
إِسْمَاعِيلُ ، عَنْ
أَيُّوبَ ، عَنْ
حَفْصَةَ ، قالت : كَانَتْ
أُمُّ عَطِيَّةَ لَا تَذْكُرُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِلَّا قَالَتْ : بِأَبِي ، فَقُلْتُ : أَسَمِعْتِ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، يَقُولُ : كَذَا وَكَذَا ؟ قَالَتْ : نَعَمْ ، بِأَبِي ، قَالَ : " لِتَخْرُجْ الْعَوَاتِقُ وَذَوَاتُ الْخُدُورِ وَالْحُيَّضُ ، فَيَشْهَدْنَ الْخَيْرَ وَدَعْوَةَ الْمُسْلِمِينَ ، وَتَعْتَزِلِ الْحُيَّضُ الْمُصَلَّى " .
´It was narrated that Hafsah said:` "Umm 'Atiyah would never mention the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) without saying: 'May my father be ransomed for him.' I said: 'Did you hear the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) say such and such?' And she said: 'Yes, may my father be ransomed for him.' He said: 'Let the mature girls, virgins staying in seclusion, and menstruating woman go out and witness the good occasions and the supplications of the Muslims, but let the menstruating women keep away from the prayer place.'"
Hadith 1559
أَخْبَرَنَا
عَمْرُو بْنُ زُرَارَةَ ، قال : حَدَّثَنَا
إِسْمَاعِيلُ ، عَنْ
أَيُّوبَ ، عَنْ
حَفْصَةَ ، قَالَتْ : كَانَتْ
أُمُّ عَطِيَّةَ لَا تَذْكُرُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , إِلَّا قَالَتْ : بِأَبِي , فَقُلْتُ : أَسَمِعْتِ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَذْكُرُ كَذَا وَكَذَا ؟ فَقَالَتْ : نَعَمْ , بِأَبِي ، قال : " لِيَخْرُجِ الْعَوَاتِقُ وَذَوَاتُ الْخُدُورِ وَالْحُيَّضُ وَيَشْهَدْنَ الْعِيدَ وَدَعْوَةَ الْمُسْلِمِينَ , وَلْيَعْتَزِلِ الْحُيَّضُ الْمُصَلَّى " .
´It was narrated that Hafsah said:` "Umm 'Atiyyah would never mention the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) without saying: 'May my father be ransomed for him.' I said: 'Did you hear the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) say such-and-such?' And she said: 'Yes, may my father be ransomed for him.' He said: Let the adolescent girls, women in seclusion and menstruating women come out and attend the 'Eid and supplications of the Muslims, but let the menstruating women keep away from the prayer place."
Hadith 1560
أَخْبَرَنَا
قُتَيْبَةُ ، قال : حَدَّثَنَا
سُفْيَانُ ، عَنْ
أَيُّوبَ ، عَنْ
مُحَمَّدٍ ، قال : لَقِيتُ
أُمَّ عَطِيَّةَ , فَقُلْتُ لَهَا : هَلْ سَمِعْتِ مِنَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ؟ وَكَانَتْ إِذَا ذَكَرَتْهُ , قَالَتْ : بِأَبِي ، قال : " أَخْرِجُوا الْعَوَاتِقَ وَذَوَاتِ الْخُدُورِ فَيَشْهَدْنَ الْعِيدَ وَدَعْوَةَ الْمُسْلِمِينَ , وَلْيَعْتَزِلِ الْحُيَّضُ مُصَلَّى النَّاسِ " .
´It was narrated that Muhammad said:` "I met Umm 'Atiyyah and said to her: 'Did you hear the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) say (anything)?' When she mentioned him, she would say: 'May my father be ransomed for him.' (He said) 'Bring out the adolescent girls and the women in seclusion and let them witness goodness and the supplication of the Muslims, but let the menstruating women keep away from the place where the people pray.'"
Hadith 1882
أَخْبَرَنَا
قُتَيْبَةُ ، عَنْ
مَالِكٍ ، عَنْ
أَيُّوبَ ، عَنْ
مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سِيرِينَ ، أَنَّ
أُمَّ عَطِيَّةَ الْأَنْصَارِيَّةَ ، قَالَتْ : دَخَلَ عَلَيْنَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حِينَ تُوُفِّيَتِ ابْنَتُهُ , فَقَالَ : " اغْسِلْنَهَا ثَلَاثًا أَوْ خَمْسًا أَوْ أَكْثَرَ مِنْ ذَلِكِ إِنْ رَأَيْتُنَّ ذَلِكِ بِمَاءٍ وَسِدْرٍ وَاجْعَلْنَ فِي الْآخِرَةِ كَافُورًا أَوْ شَيْئًا مِنْ كَافُورٍ ، فَإِذَا فَرَغْتُنَّ فَآذِنَّنِي ، فَلَمَّا فَرَغْنَا آذَنَّاهُ ، فَأَعْطَانَا حَقْوَهُ , وَقَالَ : أَشْعِرْنَهَا إِيَّاهُ " .
´It was narrated from Muhammad bin Sirin that Umm 'Atiyyah Al-Ansariyyah said:` "The Messenger of Allah entered upon us when his daughter died, and said: 'Wash her three times or five, or more if you think (that is needed), with water and lote leaves, and put some camphor in it the last time, and when you have finished call me.' When we finished we called him and he gave us his waist-wrap, and said: 'Shroud her in it."'
Hadith 1884
´It was narrated from Ayyub:` "I heard Hafsah saying: 'Umm 'Atiyyah said: They tied the hair of the daughter of the Prophet in three braids."' 'I said: Did they undo it, then make three braids? She said: 'Yes."'
Hadith 1885
´It was narrated from Umm 'Atiyyah that:` the Messenger of Allah said concerning the washing of his daughter: "Start on the right and the parts that were washed in wudu."'
Hadith 1886
أَخْبَرَنَا
عَمْرُو بْنُ عَلِيٍّ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
يَحْيَى ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
هِشَامٌ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَتْنَا
حَفْصَةُ ، عَنْ
أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ , قَالَتْ : مَاتَتْ إِحْدَى بَنَاتِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَأَرْسَلَ إِلَيْنَا ، فَقَالَ : " اغْسِلْنَهَا بِمَاءٍ وَسِدْرٍ وَاغْسِلْنَهَا وِتْرًا ثَلَاثًا أَوْ خَمْسًا أَوْ سَبْعًا إِنْ رَأَيْتُنَّ ذَلِكِ وَاجْعَلْنَ فِي الْآخِرَةِ شَيْئًا مِنْ كَافُورٍ ، فَإِذَا فَرَغْتُنَّ فَآذِنَّنِي ، فَلَمَّا فَرَغْنَا آذَنَّاهُ ، فَأَلْقَى إِلَيْنَا حَقْوَهُ وَقَالَ : أَشْعِرْنَهَا إِيَّاهُ " وَمَشَطْنَاهَا ثَلَاثَةَ قُرُونٍ وَأَلْقَيْنَاهَا مِنْ خَلْفِهَا .
´It was narrated that Umm 'Atiyyah said:` "One of the daughters of the Prophet died, and he sent word to us saying: 'Wash her with water and lotus leaves, and wash her an odd number of times, three, or five, or seven if you think (that is needed), and put some camphor in it the last time. And when you have finished, inform me.' When we finished, we finished, we informed him, and he threw his informed him, and he threw his waist-wrap to us and said: 'Shroud her in it.' And we combed her hair and put it in three braids, and put it behind her."
Hadith 1887
أَخْبَرَنَا
إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ مَسْعُودٍ ، عَنْ
يَزِيدَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
أَيُّوبُ ، عَنْ
مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سِيرِينَ ، عَنْ
أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ ، قَالَتْ : دَخَلَ عَلَيْنَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَنَحْنُ نَغْسِلُ ابْنَتَهُ ، فَقَالَ : " اغْسِلْنَهَا ثَلَاثًا أَوْ خَمْسًا أَوْ أَكْثَرَ مِنْ ذَلِكِ إِنْ رَأَيْتُنَّ ذَلِكِ بِمَاءٍ وَسِدْرٍ , وَاجْعَلْنَ فِي الْآخِرَةِ كَافُورًا أَوْ شَيْئًا مِنْ كَافُورٍ ، فَإِذَا فَرَغْتُنَّ فَآذِنَّنِي ، فَلَمَّا فَرَغْنَا آذَنَّاهُ ، فَأَلْقَى إِلَيْنَا حِقْوَهُ وَقَالَ : أَشْعِرْنَهَا إِيَّاهُ " .
´It was narrated that Umm 'Atiyyah said:` "The Messenger of Allah entered upon us when we were washing his daughter and said: 'Wash her three times or five, or more if you think (that is necessary), with water and lotus leaves, and put camphor, or some camphor in it the last time. And when you have finished, inform me.' When we finished, we informed him, and he threw his waist-wrap to us and said: 'Shroud her in it."'
Hadith 1888
أَخْبَرَنَا
قُتَيْبَةُ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
حَمَّادٌ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
أَيُّوبُ ، عَنْ
مُحَمَّدٍ ، عَنْ
أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ ، قَالَتْ : تُوُفِّيَتْ إِحْدَى بَنَاتِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَأَرْسَلَ إِلَيْنَا ، فَقَالَ : " اغْسِلْنَهَا ثَلَاثًا أَوْ خَمْسًا أَوْ أَكْثَرَ مِنْ ذَلِكِ إِنْ رَأَيْتُنَّ بِمَاءٍ وَسِدْرٍ , وَاجْعَلْنَ فِي الْآخِرَةِ كَافُورًا أَوْ شَيْئًا مِنْ كَافُورٍ ، فَإِذَا فَرَغْتُنَّ فَآذِنَّنِي ، فَلَمَّا فَرَغْنَا آذَنَّاهُ ، فَأَلْقَى إِلَيْنَا حِقْوَهُ وَقَالَ : أَشْعِرْنَهَا إِيَّاهُ " .
´It was narrated that Umm 'Atiyyah said:` "The Messenger of Allah entered upon us while we were washing his daughter and said: 'Wash her three times, or five or more if you think (that is necessary), with water and lotus leaves, and put camphor, or some camphor in it the last time. And when you have finished, inform me.' When we finished, we informed him, and he threw his waist-wrap to us, and said: Shroud her in it."
Hadith 1889
´Something similar was narrated from Umm 'Atiyyah except, that he (the narrator) said:` "Three times or five, or seven, or more than that, if you think that (is necessary)."
Hadith 1890
أَخْبَرَنَا
إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ مَسْعُودٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
بِشْرٌ ، عَنْ
سَلَمَةَ بْنِ عَلْقَمَةَ ، عَنْ
مُحَمَّدٍ ، عَنْ
بَعْضِ إِخْوَتِهِ ، عَنْ
أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ ، قَالَتْ : تُوُفِّيَتِ ابْنَةٌ لِرَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَأَمَرَنَا بِغَسْلِهَا ، فَقَالَ : " اغْسِلْنَهَا ثَلَاثًا أَوْ خَمْسًا أَوْ سَبْعًا أَوْ أَكْثَرَ مِنْ ذَلِكِ إِنْ رَأَيْتُنَّ " , قَالَتْ : قُلْتُ : وِتْرًا ، قَالَ : " نَعَمْ ، وَاجْعَلْنَ فِي الْآخِرَةِ كَافُورًا أَوْ شَيْئًا مِنْ كَافُورٍ ، فَإِذَا فَرَغْتُنَّ فَآذِنَّنِي ، فَلَمَّا فَرَغْنَا آذَنَّاهُ ، فَأَعْطَانَا حِقْوَهُ , وَقَالَ : أَشْعِرْنَهَا إِيَّاهُ " .
´It was narrated that Umm 'Atiyyah said:` "A daughter of the Messenger of Allah died and he told us to wash her. He said: 'Three times, or five or seven, or more than that, if you think that (is necessary).' I said: 'An odd number?' He said: 'Yes, and put camphor, or some camphor, in (the water) the last time. And when you have finished, inform me.' So when you have finished, we informed him, and then gave us his waist-wrap and said: 'Shroud her in it."
Hadith 1891
أَخْبَرَنَا
عَمْرُو بْنُ زُرَارَةَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
إِسْمَاعِيلُ ، عَنْ
أَيُّوبَ ، عَنْ
مُحَمَّدٍ ، عَنْ
أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ ، قَالَتْ : أَتَانَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَنَحْنُ نَغْسِلُ ابْنَتَهُ , فَقَالَ : " اغْسِلْنَهَا ثَلَاثًا أَوْ خَمْسًا أَوْ أَكْثَرَ مِنْ ذَلِكِ إِنْ رَأَيْتُنَّ ذَلِكِ بِمَاءٍ وَسِدْرٍ , وَاجْعَلْنَ فِي الْآخِرَةِ كَافُورًا أَوْ شَيْئًا مِنْ كَافُورٍ ، فَإِذَا فَرَغْتُنَّ فَآذِنَّنِي ، فَلَمَّا فَرَغْنَا آذَنَّاهُ ، فَأَلْقَى إِلَيْنَا حِقْوَهُ وَقَالَ : أَشْعِرْنَهَا إِيَّاهُ " , قَالَ : أَوْ قَالَتْ حَفْصَةُ : اغْسِلْنَهَا ثَلَاثًا أَوْ خَمْسًا أَوْ سَبْعًا , قَالَ : وَقَالَتْ أُمُّ عَطِيَّةَ : مَشَطْنَاهَا ثَلَاثَةَ قُرُونٍ ,
´It was narrated from Ayyub, from Muhammad, that Umm 'Atiyyah said:` "The Messenger of Allah came to us when we were washing his daughter. He said: 'Wash her three times, or five, or more than that if you think that (is necessary), with water and lotus leaves, and put camphor, or some camphor in (the water) the last time. And when you have finished, inform me.' When we finished, we informed him and he threw his waist-wrap to us and said: 'Shroud her in it."' He said: "Hafsah said: 'We washed her three, or five, or seven times.' Umm 'Atiyyah said: 'We combed her hair into three braids."'
Hadith 1892
´Ayyub narrated from Muhammad, who said:` "Hafsah informed me that Umm 'Atiyyah said: 'We put her hair in three braids."'
Hadith 1893
´Hammad reported from Ayyub:` "And Hafsah said, from Umm 'Atiyyah: 'We put her hair in three braids."'
Hadith 1894
أَخْبَرَنَا
يُوسُفُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ ، قال : حَدَّثَنَا
حَجَّاجٌ ، عَنِ
ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ ، قال : أَخْبَرَنِي
أَيُّوبُ بْنُ أَبِي تَمِيمَةَ ، أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ
مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ سِيرِينَ ، يَقُولُ : كَانَتْ
أُمُّ عَطِيَّةَ امْرَأَةٌ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ قَدِمَتْ تُبَادِرُ ابْنًا لَهَا فَلَمْ تُدْرِكْهُ ، حَدَّثَتْنَا ، قَالَتْ : دَخَلَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْنَا وَنَحْنُ نَغْسِلُ ابْنَتَهُ فَقَالَ : " اغْسِلْنَهَا ثَلَاثًا أَوْ خَمْسًا أَوْ أَكْثَرَ مِنْ ذَلِكِ إِنْ رَأَيْتُنَّ بِمَاءٍ وَسِدْرٍ وَاجْعَلْنَ فِي الْآخِرَةِ كَافُورًا أَوْ شَيْئًا مِنْ كَافُورٍ ، فَإِذَا فَرَغْتُنَّ فَآذِنَّنِي ، فَلَمَّا فَرَغْنَا أَلْقَى إِلَيْنَا حِقْوَهُ وَقَالَ : أَشْعِرْنَهَا إِيَّاهُ " , وَلَمْ يَزِدْ عَلَى ذَلِكَ , قَالَ : لَا أَدْرِي أَيُّ بَنَاتِهِ , قَالَ : قُلْتُ : مَا قَوْلُهُ أَشْعِرْنَهَا إِيَّاهُ أَتُؤَزَّرُ بِهِ ؟ قَالَ : لَا أُرَاهُ إِلَّا أَنْ يَقُولَ : " الْفُفْنَهَا فِيهِ " .
´Muhammad bin Sirin said:` "Umm 'Atiyyah was a woman from among the Ansar who told us: 'The Prophet entered upon us while we were washing his daughter and said: "Wash her three times, or five, or more than that if you think that (is necessary), with water and lotus leaves, and put camphor, or some camphor in it the last time. And when you have finished, inform me." So when we finished we informed him, and he threw his waist-wrap to us and said: "Shroud her in it." And he did not add to that. He (the narrator) said: "I do not know which of his daughters that was." I said: "What did he mean by: 'Shroud her in it?' Did he mean to put it on like an Izar?" He said: "No, I think he meant to wrap her completely."
Hadith 1895
أَخْبَرَنَا
شُعَيْبُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ النَّسَائِيُّ ، قال : حَدَّثَنَا
يَزِيدُ ، قال : حَدَّثَنَا
ابْنُ عَوْنٍ ، عَنْ
مُحَمَّدٍ ، عَنْ
أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ ، قَالَتْ : تُوُفِّيَ إِحْدَى بَنَاتِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ : " اغْسِلْنَهَا ثَلَاثًا أَوْ خَمْسًا أَوْ أَكْثَرَ مِنْ ذَلِكِ إِنْ رَأَيْتُنَّ ذَلِكِ وَاغْسِلْنَهَا بِالسِّدْرِ وَالْمَاءِ , وَاجْعَلْنَ فِي آخِرِ ذَلِكِ كَافُورًا أَوْ شَيْئًا مِنْ كَافُورٍ ، فَإِذَا فَرَغْتُنَّ فَآذِنَّنِي قَالَتْ : فَآذَنَّاهُ فَأَلْقَى إِلَيْنَا حِقْوَهُ فَقَالَ : أَشْعِرْنَهَا إِيَّاهُ " .
´It was narrated that Umm 'Atiyyah said:` "One of the daughters of the Prophet died and he said: 'Wash her three times, or five, or more than that if you think that (is necessary). Wash her with water and lotus leaves and put camphor, or some camphor in it the last time. And when you have finished inform me.' We informed him, and he threw his waist-wrapper to us and said: 'Shroud her in it."'
Hadith 3564
أَخْبَرَنَا
حُسَيْنُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
خَالِدٌ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
هِشَامٌ ، عَنْ
حَفْصَةَ ، عَنْ
أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ ، قَالَتْ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " لَا تَحِدُّ امْرَأَةٌ عَلَى مَيِّتٍ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثٍ إِلَّا عَلَى زَوْجٍ ، فَإِنَّهَا تَحِدُّ عَلَيْهِ أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا ، وَلَا تَلْبَسُ ثَوْبًا مَصْبُوغًا ، وَلَا ثَوْبَ عَصْبٍ ، وَلَا تَكْتَحِلُ ، وَلَا تَمْتَشِطُ ، وَلَا تَمَسُّ طِيبًا إِلَّا عِنْدَ طُهْرِهَا حِينَ تَطْهُرُ نُبَذًا مِنْ قُسْطٍ وَأَظْفَارٍ " .
´It was narrated that Umm 'Atiyyah said:` "The Messenger of Allah said: 'No woman should mourn for anyone who dies for more than three days, except for a husband, for whom she should mourn for four months and ten days. She should not wear garments that are dyed or patterned, or put on kohl or comb her hair, and she should not put on any perfume except when purifying herself after her period, when she may use a little of Qust or Azfar.'"
Hadith 3566
أَخْبَرَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
سُفْيَانُ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
عَاصِمٌ ، عَنْ
حَفْصَةَ ، عَنْ
أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، قَالَ : " لَا يَحِلُّ لِامْرَأَةٍ تُؤْمِنُ بِاللَّهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الْآخِرِ أَنْ تَحِدَّ عَلَى مَيِّتٍ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثٍ إِلَّا عَلَى زَوْجٍ ، وَلَا تَكْتَحِلُ ، وَلَا تَخْتَضِبُ ، وَلَا تَلْبَسُ ثَوْبًا مَصْبُوغًا " .
´It was narrated from Umm 'Atiyyah that the Prophet said:` "It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day, to mourn for anyone who dies for more than three days, except for a husband; she should not use kohl, dye nor wear dyed clothes."
Hadith 3572
It was narrated from Hafsah, from Umm 'Atiyyah, from the Prophet, that he granted a concession to the woman whose husband has died, allowing her to use Qust and Azfar when purifying herself following her menses.
Hadith 4184
أَخْبَرَنِي
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا
سُفْيَانُ ، عَنْ
أَيُّوبَ ، عَنْ
مُحَمَّدٍ ، عَنْ
أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ ، قَالَتْ : لَمَّا أَرَدْتُ ، أَنْ أُبَايِعَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، قُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّ امْرَأَةً أَسْعَدَتْنِي فِي الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ , فَأَذْهَبُ فَأُسْعِدُهَا ثُمَّ أَجِيئُكَ فَأُبَايِعُكَ ؟ ، قَالَ : " اذْهَبِي فَأَسْعِدِيهَا " ، قَالَتْ : فَذَهَبْتُ فَسَاعَدْتُهَا ثُمَّ جِئْتُ فَبَايَعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ .
´It was narrated that Umm 'Atiyyah said:` "When I wanted to give pledge to the Messenger of Allah, I said: 'O Messenger of Allah, women helped me (in wailing for the dead) during the Jahiliyyah; shall I go and help her (in wailing) and then come to you and give you my oath of allegiance?' He said: 'Go and help her.' So I went and helped her, then I came, and gave my pledge to the Messenger of Allah."
Hadith 4185
´It was narrated that Umm 'Atiyyah said:` "The Messenger of Allah accepted our pledge that we would not wail (for the dead)."