Hadith 2140
حَدَّثَنَا
عَمْرُو بْنُ عَوْنٍ ، أَخْبَرَنَا
إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ ، عَنْ
شَرِيكٍ ، عَنْ
حُصَيْنٍ ، عَنْ
الشَّعْبِيِّ ، عَنْ
قَيْسِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ ، قَالَ : أَتَيْتُ الْحِيرَةَ فَرَأَيْتُهُمْ يَسْجُدُونَ لِمَرْزُبَانٍ لَهُمْ ، فَقُلْتُ : رَسُولُ اللَّهِ أَحَقُّ أَنْ يُسْجَدَ لَهُ ، قَالَ : فَأَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقُلْتُ : إِنِّي أَتَيْتُ الْحِيرَةَ فَرَأَيْتُهُمْ يَسْجُدُونَ لِمَرْزُبَانٍ لَهُمْ ، فَأَنْتَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَحَقُّ أَنْ نَسْجُدَ لَكَ ، قَالَ : " أَرَأَيْتَ لَوْ مَرَرْتَ بِقَبْرِي أَكُنْتَ تَسْجُدُ لَهُ ؟ " قَالَ : قُلْتُ : لَا ، قَالَ : " فَلَا تَفْعَلُوا ،لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لِأَحَدٍ لَأَمَرْتُ النِّسَاءَ أَنْ يَسْجُدْنَ لِأَزْوَاجِهِنَّ ، لِمَا جَعَلَ اللَّهُ لَهُمْ عَلَيْهِنَّ مِنَ الْحَقِّ " .
Narrated Qays ibn Saad: I went to al-Hirah and saw them (the people) prostrating themselves before a satrap of theirs, so I said: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ has most right to have prostration made before him. When I came to the Prophet ﷺ, I said: I went to al-Hirah and saw them prostrating themselves before a satrap of theirs, but you have most right, Messenger of Allah, to have (people) prostrating themselves before you. He said: Tell me, if you were to pass my grave, would you prostrate yourself before it? I said: No. He then said: Do not do so. If I were to command anyone to make prostration before another I would command women to prostrate themselves before their husbands, because of the special right over them given to husbands by Allah.
Hadith 5185
حَدَّثَنَا
هِشَامٌ أَبُو مَرْوَانَ ،
وَمُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْمُثَنَّى الْمَعْنَى ، قَالَ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْمُثَنَّى ، حَدَّثَنَا
الْوَلِيدُ بْنُ مُسْلِمٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا
الْأَوْزَاعِيُّ ، قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ
يَحْيَى بْنَ أَبِي كَثِيرٍ ، يَقُولُ : حَدَّثَنِي
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَسْعَدَ بْنِ زُرَارَةَ ، عَنْ
قَيْسِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ ، قَالَ : " زَارَنَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي مَنْزِلِنَا ، فَقَالَ : السَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللَّهِ , فَرَدَّ سَعْدٌ رَدًّا خَفِيًّا ، قَالَ قَيْسٌ : فَقُلْتُ : أَلَا تَأْذَنُ لِرَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ؟ , فَقَالَ ذَرْهُ : يُكْثِرُ عَلَيْنَا مِنَ السَّلَامِ , فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ السَّلَامُ : عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللَّهِ ، فَرَدَّ سَعْدُ رَدًّا خَفِيًّا ، ثُمَّ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : السَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللَّهِ ، ثُمَّ رَجَعَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَاتَّبَعَهُ سَعْدٌ ، فَقَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنِّي كُنْتُ أَسْمَعُ تَسْلِيمَكَ وَأَرُدُّ عَلَيْكَ رَدًّا خَفِيًّا لِتُكْثِرَ عَلَيْنَا مِنَ السَّلَامِ , قال : فَانْصَرَفَ مَعَهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَأَمَرَ لَهُ سَعْدٌ بِغُسْلٍ ، فَاغْتَسَلَ ، ثُمَّ نَاوَلَهُ مِلْحَفَةً مَصْبُوغَةً بِزَعْفَرَانٍ أَوْ وَرْسٍ ، فَاشْتَمَلَ بِهَا ، ثُمَّ رَفَعَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَدَيْهِ ، وَهُوَ يَقُولُ : اللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْ صَلَوَاتِكَ وَرَحْمَتَكَ عَلَى آلِ سَعْدِ بْنِ عُبَادَةَ , قال : ثُمَّ أَصَابَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مِنَ الطَّعَامِ ، فَلَمَّا أَرَادَ الِانْصِرَافَ قَرَّبَ لَهُ سَعْدٌ حِمَارًا قَدْ وَطَّأَ عَلَيْهِ بِقَطِيفَةٍ ، فَرَكِبَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ سَعْدٌ : يَا قَيْسُ اصْحَبْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، قَالَ قَيْسٌ : فَقَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : ارْكَبْ فَأَبَيْتُ , ثُمَّ قَالَ : إِمَّا أَنْ تَرْكَبَ وَإِمَّا أَنْ تَنْصَرِفَ ، قَالَ : فَانْصَرَفْتُ " , قال هِشَامٌ أَبُو مَرْوَانَ : عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَسْعَدَ بْنِ زُرَارَةَ ، قَالَ أَبُو دَاوُدَ : رَوَاهُ عُمَرُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْوَاحِدِ ، وَابْنُ سَمَاعَةَ ، عَنْ الْأَوْزَاعِيِّ مُرْسَلًا ، وَلَمْ يَذْكُرَا قَيْسَ بْنَ سَعْدٍ .
Narrated Qays ibn Saad: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ came to visit us in our house, and said: Peace and Allah's mercy be upon you! Saad returned the greeting in a lower tone. Qays said: I said: Do you not grant permission to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ to enter? He said: Leave him, he will give us many greetings. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ then said: Peace and Allah's mercy be upon you! Saad again responded in a lower tone. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ again said: Peace and Allah's mercy be upon you! So the Messenger of Allah ﷺ went away. Saad went after him and said: Messenger of Allah! I heard your greetings and responded in a lower tone so that you might give us many greetings. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ returned with him. Saad then offered to prepare bath-water for him, and he took a bath. He then gave him a long wrapper dyed with saffron or wars and he wrapped himself in it. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ then raised his hands and said: O Allah, bestow Thy blessings and mercy on the family of Saad ibn Ubadah! The Messenger of Allah ﷺ then shared their meals. When he intended to return, Saad brought near him an ass which was covered with a blanket. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ mounted it. Saad said: O Qays, accompany the Messenger of Allah. Qays said: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said to me: Ride. But I refused. He again said: Either ride or go away. He said: So I went away. Hisham said: Abu Marwan (transmitted) from Muhammad ibn Abdur Rahman ibn Asad ibn Zurarah. Abu Dawud said: Umar bin Abd al-Wahid and Ibn Samaah transmitted it from al-Awzai' in mursal form (the ling of the Companion being missing), and they did not mention Qais bin Saad.