Hadith 719
´Umm Habibah narrated that :` When the Messenger of Allah was with her on her day and night, and heard the Mu'adh-dhin calling the Adhan, she heard him saying what he said.
Hadith 1612
´It was narrated that Jarir bin ‘Abdullah Al-Bajali said:` “We used to think that gathering with the family of the deceased and preparing food was a form of wailing.”