أبو بكر بن أبي الجهم العدوي
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Sahih Muslim
Hadith 1480
وَحدثنا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ ، حدثنا وَكِيعٌ ، حدثنا سُفْيَانُ ، عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ أَبِي الْجَهْمِ بْنِ صُخَيْرٍ الْعَدَوِيِّ ، قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتَ قَيْسٍ ، تَقُولُ : إِنَّ زَوْجَهَا طَلَّقَهَا ثَلَاثًا ، " فَلَمْ يَجْعَلْ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ سُكْنَى ، وَلَا نَفَقَةً ، قَالَت : قَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : إِذَا حَلَلْتِ ، فَآذِنِينِي ، فَآذَنْتُهُ فَخَطَبَهَا مُعَاوِيَةُ ، وَأَبُو جَهْمٍ ، وَأُسَامَةُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ ، فقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " أَمَّا مُعَاوِيَةُ ، فَرَجُلٌ تَرِبٌ لَا مَالَ لَهُ ، وَأَمَّا أَبُو جَهْمٍ ، فَرَجُلٌ ضَرَّابٌ لِلنِّسَاءِ ، وَلَكِنْ أُسَامَةُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ " ، فقَالَت : بِيَدِهَا هَكَذَا أُسَامَةُ أُسَامَةُ ، فقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " طَاعَةُ اللَّهِ وَطَاعَةُ رَسُولِهِ خَيْرٌ لَكِ " ، قَالَت : فَتَزَوَّجْتُهُ ، فَاغْتَبَطْتُ .
Fatima bint Qais (Allah be pleased with her) reported that her husband divorced her with three pronouncements and Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) made no provision for her lodging and maintenance allowance. She (further said): Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to me: When your period of 'Idda is over, inform me. So I informed him. (By that time) Mu'awiyah, Abu Jahm and Usama bin Zaid had given her the proposal of marriage. Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: So far as Mu'awiyah is concerned, he is a poor man without any property. So far as Abu Jahm is concerned, he is a great beater of women, but Usama bin Zaid... She pointed with her hand that she did not approve of the idea of marrying Usama. But Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon himn) said: Obedience to Allah and obedience to His Messenger is better for thee. She said: So I married him, and I became an object of envy.
Hadith 1480
وَحَدَّثَنِي إِسْحَاقَ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ ، حدثنا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ ، عَنْ سُفْيَانَ ، عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ أَبِي الْجَهْمِ ، قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتَ قَيْسٍ ، تَقُولُ : أَرْسَلَ إِلَيَّ زَوْجِي أَبُو عَمْرِو بْنُ حَفْصِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ : عَيَّاشَ بْنَ أَبِي رَبِيعَةَ ، بِطَلَاقِي وَأَرْسَلَ مَعَهُ بِخَمْسَةِ آصُعِ تَمْرٍ ، وَخَمْسَةِ آصُعِ شَعِيرٍ ، فَقُلْتُ : أَمَا لِي نَفَقَةٌ إِلَّا هَذَا ، وَلَا أَعْتَدُّ فِي مَنْزِلِكُمْ ، قَالَ : لَا ، قَالَت : فَشَدَدْتُ عَلَيَّ ثِيَابِي ، وَأَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فقَالَ : " كَمْ طَلَّقَكِ " ، قُلْتُ : ثَلَاثًا ، قَالَ : " صَدَقَ ، لَيْسَ لَكِ نَفَقَةٌ ، اعْتَدِّي فِي بَيْتِ ابْنِ عَمِّكِ ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ ، فَإِنَّهُ ضَرِيرُ الْبَصَرِ تُلْقِي ثَوْبَكِ عَنْدَهُ ، فَإِذَا انْقَضَتْ عِدَّتُكِ فَآذِنِينِي " ، قَالَت : فَخَطَبَنِي خُطَّابٌ مِنْهُمْ : مُعَاوِيَةُ ، وَأَبُو الْجَهْمِ ، فقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " إِنَّ مُعَاوِيَةَ تَرِبٌ خَفِيفُ الْحَالِ ، وَأَبُو الْجَهْمِ مِنْهُ شِدَّةٌ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ ، أَوْ يَضْرِبُ النِّسَاءَ أَوْ نَحْوَ هَذَا ، وَلَكِنْ عَلَيْكِ بِأُسَامَةَ بْنِ زَيْدٍ " ،
Fatima bint Qais (Allah be pleased with her) reported: My husband Abu 'Amr bin Hafs bin al-Mughirahh sent 'Ayyish bin Abu Rabi'a to me with a divorce, and he also sent through him five sa's of dates and five sa's of barley. I said: Is there no maintenance allowance for me but only this, and I cannot even spend my 'Idda period in your house? He said: No. She said: I dressed myself and came to Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) . He said: How many pronouncements of divorce have been made for you? I said: Three. He said what he ('Ayyish bin Abu Rabi'a) had stated was true. There is no maintenance allowance for you. Spend 'Idda period in the house of your cousin, Ibn Umm Maktum. He is blind and you can put off your garment in his presence. And when you have spent your Idda period, you inform me. She said: Mu'awiyah and Abu'l-Jahm (RA) were among those who had given me the proposal of marriage. Thereupon Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) said: Mu'awiyah is destitute and in poor condition and Abu'l-Jahm is very harsh with women (or he beats women, or like that), you should take Usama bin Zaid (as your husband).
Hadith 1480
وَحَدَّثَنِي إِسْحَاقَ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ ، أَخْبَرَنا أَبُو عَاصِمٍ ، حدثنا سُفْيَانُ الثَّوْرِيُّ ، حَدَّثَنِي أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي الْجَهْمِ ، قَالَ : دَخَلْتُ أَنَا ، وَأَبُو سَلَمَةَ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ عَلَى فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ قَيْسٍ ، فَسَأَلْنَاهَا ، فقَالَت : كُنْتُ عَنْدَ أَبِي عَمْرِو بْنِ حَفْصِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ ، فَخَرَجَ فِي غَزْوَةِ نَجْرَانَ ، وَسَاقَ الْحَدِيثَ بِنَحْوِ حَدِيثِ ابْنِ مَهْدِيٍّ ، وَزَادَ ، قَالَت : فَتَزَوَّجْتُهُ فَشَرَّفَنِي اللَّهُ بِأَبِي زَيْدٍ ، وَكَرَّمَنِي اللَّهُ بِأَبِي زَيْدٍ ،
Abu Bakr (RA) bin Abu'l-Jahm reported: I and Abu Salama b 'Abdul Rahman came to fatima bint Qais (Allah be pleased with her) and asked her (about divorce, etc.). She said: I was the wife of Abu 'Amr bin Hafs bin al-Mughirah, and he set out to join the battle of Najran. The rest of the hadith is the same, but he made this addition: "She said: I married him and Allah hornoured me on account of Ibn Zaid and Allah favoured me because of him."
Hadith 1480
وحدثنا عُبَيْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مُعَاذٍ الْعَنْبَرِيُّ ، حدثنا أَبِي ، حدثنا شُعْبَةُ حَدَّثَنِي أَبُو بَكْرٍ ، قَالَ : دَخَلْتُ أَنَا ، وَأَبُو سَلَمَةَ عَلَى فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ قَيْسٍ زَمَنَ ابْنِ الزُّبَيْرِ ، فَحَدَّثَتْنَا أَنَّ زَوْجَهَا طَلَّقَهَا طَلَاقًا بَاتًّا بِنَحْوِ حَدِيثِ سُفْيَانَ .
Abu Bakr (RA) reported: I and Abu Salama came to Fatima bint Qais (Allah be pleased with her) during the time of Ibn Zubair (RA) and she narrated to us that her husband gave her an irrevocable divorce. (The rest of the hadith is the same.)
