سنن نسائي
Nasai
كتاب الطلاقThe Book of Divorce
بَابُ : الرُّخْصَةِ لِلْحَادَّةِ أَنْ تَمْتَشِطَ بِالسِّدْرِ
Chapter: Concession Allowing A Woman In Mourning To Comb Her Hair With Lote Leaves
Hadith 3567
أَخْبَرَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَمْرِو بْنِ السَّرْحِ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ وَهْبٍ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي مَخْرَمَةُ ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ ، قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ الْمُغِيرَةَ بْنَ الضَّحَّاكِ ، يَقُولُ : حَدَّثَتْنِي أُمُّ حَكِيمٍ بِنْتُ أَسِيدٍ ، عَنْ أُمِّهَا ، أَنَّ زَوْجَهَا تُوُفِّيَ وَكَانَتْ تَشْتَكِي عَيْنَهَا ، فَتَكْتَحِلُ الْجَلَاءَ ، فَأَرْسَلَتْ مَوْلَاةً لَهَا إِلَى أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ فَسَأَلَتْهَا عَنْ كُحْلِ الْجَلَاءِ ، فَقَالَتْ : لَا تَكْتَحِلُ إِلَّا مِنْ أَمْرٍ لَا بُدَّ مِنْهُ ، دَخَلَ عَلَيّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حِينَ تُوُفِّيَ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ ، وَقَدْ جَعَلْتُ عَلَى عَيْنِي صَبْرًا ، فَقَالَ : " مَا هَذَا يَا أُمَّ سَلَمَةَ ؟ " قُلْتُ : إِنَّمَا هُوَ صَبْرٌ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، لَيْسَ فِيهِ طِيبٌ ، قَالَ : " إِنَّهُ يَشُبُّ الْوَجْهَ ، فَلَا تَجْعَلِيهِ إِلَّا بِاللَّيْلِ ، وَلَا تَمْتَشِطِي بِالطِّيبِ وَلَا بِالْحِنَّاءِ ، فَإِنَّهُ خِضَابٌ " ، قُلْتُ : بِأَيِّ شَيْءٍ أَمْتَشِطُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ؟ قَالَ : " بِالسِّدْرِ تُغَلِّفِينَ بِهِ رَأْسَكِ " .
´Umm Hakim bint Asid narrated from her mother that her husband died and she had a problem in her eye, so she applied kohl to clear her eyes. She sent a freed slave woman of hers to Umm Salamah to ask her about using kohl to clear her eyes. She said:` "Do not use kohl unless it cannot be avoided. The Messenger of Allah entered upon me when Abu Salamah died and I had put some aloe juice on my eyes. He said: 'What is this, O Umm Salamah?' I said: 'It is aloe juice, O Messenger of Allah, there is no perfume in it.' He said: 'It makes the face look bright, so only use it at night, and do not comb your hair with perfume or henna, for it is a dye.' I said: 'With what can I comb it, O Messenger of Allah?' He said: 'With lote leaves -cover your head with them.'"
