سنن نسائي
Sunan an-Nasa'i
كتاب النكاح
The Book of Marriage
بَابُ : نِكَاحِ الأَبْكَارِ
Chapter: Marrying Virgins
Hadith 3221
أَخْبَرَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ ، عَنْ عَمْرٍو ، عَنْ جَابِرٍ ، قَالَ : تَزَوَّجْتُ ، فَأَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ : " أَتَزَوَّجْتَ يَا جَابِرُ " , قُلْتُ : نَعَمْ ، قَالَ : " بِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا ؟ " فَقُلْتُ : ثَيِّبًا ، قَالَ : " فَهَلَّا بِكْرًا ، تُلَاعِبُهَا وَتُلَاعِبُكَ " .
´Narrated Jabir:` It was narrated that Jabir said: "I got married then I came to the Prophet and he said: 'Have you got married, O Jabir?' I said: 'Yes.' He said: 'To a virgin or to a previously married woman?' I said: 'To a previously married woman.' He said: 'Why not a virgin, so you could play with her and she could play with you?'"
Hadith 3222
أَخْبَرَنَا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ قَزَعَةَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ وَهُوَ ابْنُ حَبِيبٍ , عَنْ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ ، عَنْ عَطَاءٍ ، عَنْ جَابِرٍ ، قَالَ : لَقِيَنِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ : " يَا جَابِرُ , هَلْ أَصَبْتَ امْرَأَةً بَعْدِي ؟ " قُلْتُ : نَعَمْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، قَالَ : " أَبِكْرًا أَمْ أَيِّمًا ؟ " قُلْتُ : أَيِّمًا ؟ قَالَ : " فَهَلَّا بِكْرًا تُلَاعِبُكَ " .
´Narrated Jabir:` It was narrated that Jabir said: "The Messenger of Allah met me and said: 'O Jabir, have you got married to a woman since I last saw you?' I said: 'Yes, O Messenger of Allah.' He said: 'To a virgin or to a previously-married woman?' I said: 'To a previously-married woman.' He said: 'Why not a virgin, so she could play with you?'"
