´It was narrated that Abu Hurairah said:` "We would sit with the Messenger of Allah in the Masjid and when he stood up, we would stand up too, Only day he stood up and we stood up with him, and when he reached the middle of the Masjid, a man caught up with him and pulled roughly on his Rida' (upper-warp) from behind. His Rida 'was of rough material, and that left a red mark on his neck. He said: 'O Muhammad! Load up these two camels of mine, for you are not giving me anything from your wealth or the wealth of your father!' The Messenger of Allah said: 'The Messenger of Allah said: 'No, and I pray for Allah's forgiveness. I will not load anything (onto your camels) untily you let me retaliate for your pulling roughly (on my cloak and leaving a mark on) my neck.' The Bedouin said: 'No, by Allah, I will not let you retaliate., The Messenger of Allah said that three times, and each time the man said: 'No, by Allah, I will not let you retaliate., When we heard what the Bedouin said, we turned toward him quickly. The Messenger of Allah turned to us and said; 'I urge anyone who hears me not to leave his place until give him permission. Then the Messenger of Allah said: 'O so and so, load one of his camels with barley and the other with dates.' Then the Messenger of Allah said: 'Leave,"'
Hadith Referenceسنن نسائي / كتاب القسامة والقود والديات / 4780
Hadith Gradingالألبانی:ضعيف لكن قصة الأعرابي وجبذه وأمره صلى الله عليه وسلم له بعطاء في ق | زبیر علی زئی:ضعيف، إسناده ضعيف، ابو داود (4775) انوار الصحيفه، صفحه نمبر 356
Hadith Takhrij«سنن ابی داود/الأدب 1(4775)، (تحفة الأشراف: 14801)، مسند احمد (2/288) (ضعیف) (اس کے راوی ہلال بن ابی ہلال لین الحدیث ہیں، لیکن اعرابی کے آپ کو پکڑ کر کھینچنے کا قصہ صحیح بخاری (لباس 18) میں انس رضی الله عنہ سے مروی ہے)»
This narration is weak in terms of its chain in this context; however, the incident of the Bedouin asking the question and placing the cloak around the neck is narrated from Anas radi Allahu anhu in Sahih al-Bukhari. See: (Sahih al-Bukhari, al-Adab, Hadith: 6088)
Source: Sunan Nasa'i: Translation and Benefits by Shaykh Hafiz Muhammad Amin Hafizullah, Page: 4780
Narrated Abu Hurairah: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to sit with us in meetings and talk to us. When he stood up we also used to stand up and see him entering the house of one of his wives. One day he talked to us and we stood up as he stood up and we saw that an Arabi (a nomadic Arab) caught hold of him and gave his cloak a violent tug making his neck red. Abu Hurairah said: The cloak was coarse. He turned to him and the Arabi said to him: Load these two camels of mine, for you do not give me anything from your property or from your father's property. The Prophet ﷺ said to him: No, I ask Allah's forgiveness; no, I ask Allah's forgiveness; no, I ask Allah's forgiveness. I shall not give you the camel-load until you make amends for the way in which you tugged at me. Each time the Arabi said to him: I swear by Allah, I shall not do so. He then mentioned the rest of the tradition. He (the Prophet), then called a man and said to him: Load these two camels of his: one camel with barley and the other with dates. He then turned to us and said: Go on your way with the blessing of Allah.
Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi
Benefits and Issues: This narration is weak in its chain of transmission. However, from Anas radi Allahu anhu, a similar incident has been narrated in the two Sahihs. See (Sahih al-Bukhari, Book of Manners, Chapter: Smiling and Laughing, Hadith 6088). In such incidents, the forbearance of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and his gentle manner of dealing even with people of harsh temperament is described.
Source: Sunan Abu Dawood – Commentary by Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi, Page: 4775