Hafiz Muhammad Ameen
(1) "A calamity befell"—this refers to the Battle of Hunayn. After the conquest of Makkah, the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) received news that the Banu Hawazin and others were gathering to confront the Muslims. He decided to face them. When the battle took place, the Hawazin and others were defeated, and their women, children, camels, goats—in short, everything—fell into the hands of the Muslims. The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) refrained from distributing these spoils for fourteen days, so that if this tribe came and accepted Islam, their families and wealth could be returned to them. But out of fear, they did not come. Eventually, the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) distributed their wealth and families. After the distribution, people came in delegations, declared their Islam, and also requested the return of their families and wealth that had been distributed. The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said: "I waited for you for a long time. If you had come earlier, everything would have been returned to you. But now the distribution has taken place. It will be difficult to take everything back, so choose one thing from your families and wealth."
(2) Aqra' ibn Habis had not yet become a permanent companion, nor had he had the opportunity to benefit from the training of the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam), which is why he used such words. Otherwise, the Companions themselves could not even conceive of such an attitude.
(3) "You will get six camels each"—the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) meant that he had already decided to return their women and children, so all of them would have to be returned. However, whoever wished to retain his share, he would be given six camels from the next spoils of war in exchange for that share. Now, those women and children would be returned to their people.
(4) "The people surrounded him"—these were probably not people included in the Islamic army, because they had already received their share. Rather, these were likely Bedouins from the surrounding areas who, upon hearing news of the spoils, rushed over and began making demands without reason, even though the spoils had already been distributed. Despite this, the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) demonstrated patience and forbearance and did not hold them accountable for their disrespect.
(5) "You would have received it"—because the khums (one-fifth) would be collected in the Bayt al-Mal (public treasury). The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) would take from it according to his needs, and the remainder would be spent on the interests of the Muslims.
(6) "Myself and the family of Abdul Muttalib would take from it"—and the rest. This indicates that the share of the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) and the family of Abdul Muttalib was not separate, but rather included within the total, and that is what he gave as a gift or forgave. Therefore, it is permissible to gift a jointly owned item.
(7) If the Imam, for the benefit of the Muslims, shows kindness to the captives and sets them free, there is no harm in this.
Source: Sunan Nasa'i: Translation and Benefits by Shaykh Hafiz Muhammad Amin Hafizullah, Page: 3718