Hadith 3562

أَخْبَرَنَا إِسْحَاق بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ ، عَنْ سُفْيَانَ ، عَنْ سَعْدِ بْنِ إِسْحَاق ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَتْنِي زَيْنَبُ بِنْتُ كَعْبٍ ، قَالَتْ : حَدَّثَتْنِي فُرَيْعَةُ بِنْتُ مَالِكٍ أُخْتُ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ ، قَالَتْ : تُوُفِّيَ زَوْجِي بِالْقَدُومِ ، فَأَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَذَكَرْتُ لَهُ ، إِنَّ دَارَنَا شَاسِعَةٌ فَأَذِنَ لَهَا ، ثُمَّ دَعَاهَا ، فَقَالَ : " امْكُثِي فِي بَيْتِكِ أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا حَتَّى يَبْلُغَ الْكِتَابُ أَجَلَهُ " .
´Furai'ah bint Malik, the sister of Abu Sa'eed Al-Khudri, said:` "My husband died in Al-Qadum, so I went to the Prophet and told him that our house was remote." He gave her permission then he called her back and said: "Stay in your house for four months and ten days, until the term prescribed is fulfilled."
Hadith Reference سنن نسائي / كتاب الطلاق / 3562
Hadith Grading الألبانی: صحيح  |  زبیر علی زئی: حسن
Hadith Takhrij «انظر حدیث رقم: 3558 (صحیح)»
Explanation & Benefits
Hafiz Muhammad Ameen
There are no words in this hadith that indicate the chapter heading. The correct view is that the waiting period (‘iddah) for death begins from the time of death, not from the time the news is received. Both rationally and textually, this is the correct position. In the Qur’an and hadith, the mention is of death, not of receiving the news. This is the position of Ibn ‘Umar, Ibn Mas‘ud, Ibn ‘Abbas (radi Allahu anhum), and a group of the Tabi‘in. Among the Imams, Imam Malik, Imam Shafi‘i, Imam Ahmad, Imam Ishaq (rahimahumullah), and the scholars of opinion (ashab al-ra’y) and others also hold this view. The second position is narrated from ‘Ali (radi Allahu anhu), and likewise from Hasan al-Basri, Qatadah, and ‘Ata’ al-Khurasani and others, but this is not correct.
Source: Sunan Nasa'i: Translation and Benefits by Shaykh Hafiz Muhammad Amin Hafizullah, Page: 3562
Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi
Benefits and Issues:
It is obligatory for a woman to spend her waiting period (‘iddah) in the very house where her husband passed away, except in the case of an extreme necessity that prevents her from doing so, for example, if it is not possible for her to stay in that house.
Source: Sunan Abu Dawood – Commentary by Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi, Page: 2300
Maulana Ataullah Sajid
Benefits and Issues:
(1)
A woman should observe her waiting period (‘iddah) in the same residence where she was living with her husband.

(2)
Upon the husband's death, the waiting period (‘iddah) is four months and ten days. And if the woman is pregnant, then her waiting period (‘iddah) is until childbirth, even if the birth occurs just a few moments after the husband's death.
Source: Commentary on Sunan Ibn Mājah by Mawlānā ‘Atā’ullāh Sājid, Page: 2031
Hafiz Muhammad Ameen
(1) It is understood from this that during the waiting period (‘iddah) of widowhood, it is obligatory for a woman to remain in her husband’s house. This is the position of the majority of the scholars. However, it is narrated from Ali, Ibn Abbas, Aisha, and Jabir (radi Allahu anhum) that she may observe her ‘iddah wherever she wishes, but this authentic hadith explicitly indicates obligation. In case of severe necessity, she may leave the house, but after completing her task, she must return home immediately. She should not spend the night outside. And Allah knows best.

(2) “A distant house” refers to one that is far from the populated area or from the woman’s relatives.
Source: Sunan Nasa'i: Translation and Benefits by Shaykh Hafiz Muhammad Amin Hafizullah, Page: 3558
Hafiz Muhammad Ameen
"Fari‘ah": In the previous narration, her name was mentioned as "Fari‘ah." There is no difference; "Fari‘ah" is the diminutive form of "Fari‘ah." She was addressed by both names. Radi Allahu anha wa ardaaha.
Source: Sunan Nasa'i: Translation and Benefits by Shaykh Hafiz Muhammad Amin Hafizullah, Page: 3559
Hafiz Muhammad Ameen
Urdu footnote:
"Remain in your same house"—even if that house was not owned by the husband, as long as she is not being expelled from it. However, if she is expelled from the house, or the house collapses, or there is danger, then the woman may relocate. And Allah knows best.
Source: Sunan Nasa'i: Translation and Benefits by Shaykh Hafiz Muhammad Amin Hafizullah, Page: 3560
Shaykh Safi ur-Rahman Mubarakpuri
Takhrij:
«أخرجه أبوداود، الطلاق، باب في المتوفي عنها تنتقل، حديث:2300، والترمذي، الطلاق واللعان، حديث:1204، والنسائي، الطلاق، حديث:3559، وابن ماجه، الطلاق، حديث:2031، وأحمد:6 /370، وابن حبان (الإحسان): 6 /248، حديث:4279، والحاكم:2 /208.»©Explanation:
This hadith is evidence that a woman whose husband passes away must complete her waiting period (‘iddah) in the same house where she resided with her husband, and where she received the news of her husband's death. She is not permitted to move to another house.
This is the position of the majority of the scholars who have investigated the matter.
There is also another opinion that it is permissible for her to move to another place.
© Hadith Narrator:
«حضرت فُرَیعہ بنت مالک بن سنان خُدْریہ رضی اللہ عنہا » was the sister of the renowned Companion of the Messenger, Abu Sa‘id al-Khudri radi Allahu anhu.
She was present at the Pledge of Ridwan (Bay‘at al-Ridwan).
Source: Bulugh al-Maram: Commentary by Safiur Rahman Mubarakpuri, Page: 952