Hadith 3492

أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ ، قَالَ : أَنْبَأَنَا ابْنُ الْقَاسِمِ ، عَنْ مَالِكٍ ، عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ سَعِيدٍ ، عَنْ عَمْرَةَ بِنْتِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ أَنَّهَا أَخْبَرَتْهُ ، عَنْ حَبِيبَةَ بِنْتِ سَهْلٍ : أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ تَحْتَ ثَابِتِ بْنِ قَيْسِ بْنِ شَمَّاسٍ ، وَأَنّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ خَرَجَ إِلَى الصُّبْحِ ، فَوَجَدَ حَبِيبَةَ بِنْتَ سَهْلٍ عِنْدَ بَابِهِ فِي الْغَلَسِ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " مَنْ هَذِهِ ؟ " قَالَتْ : أَنَا حَبِيبَةُ بِنْتُ سَهْلٍ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، قَالَ : " مَا شَأْنُكِ ؟ " قَالَتْ : لَا أَنَا ، وَلَا ثَابِتُ بْنُ قَيْسٍ لِزَوْجِهَا ، فَلَمَّا جَاءَ ثَابِتُ بْنُ قَيْسٍ ، قَالَ لَهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " هَذِهِ حَبِيبَةُ بِنْتُ سَهْلٍ ، قَدْ ذَكَرَتْ مَا شَاءَ اللَّهُ أَنْ تَذْكُرَ " ، فَقَالَتْ حَبِيبَةُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، كُلُّ مَا أَعْطَانِي عِنْدِي ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ لِثَابِتٍ : " خُذْ مِنْهَا ، فَأَخَذَ مِنْهَا ، وَجَلَسَتْ فِي أَهْلِهَا " .
´It was narrated from Yahya bin Sa'eed, from 'Amrah bint 'Abdur-Rahman, that she told him about Habibah bint Sahl:` "She was married to Thabit bin Qais bin Shammas. The Messenger of Allah went out to pray As-Subh and he found Habibah bint Sahl at his door at the end of the night. The Messenger of Allah said: 'Who is this?' She said: 'I am Habibah bint Sahl, O Messenger of Allah.' He said: 'What is the matter?' She said: 'I cannot live with Thabit bin Qais' -her husband. When Thabit bin Qais came, the Messenger of Allah said to him: 'Here is Habibah bint Sahl and she has said what Allah willed she should say.' Habibah said: 'O Messenger of Allah, everything that he gave me is with me.' The Messenger of Allah said: 'Take it from her.' So he took it from her and she stayed with her family."
Hadith Reference سنن نسائي / كتاب الطلاق / 3492
Hadith Grading الألبانی: صحيح  |  زبیر علی زئی: إسناده صحيح
Hadith Takhrij «سنن ابی داود/الطلاق 18 (2227)، (تحفة الأشراف: 15792)، موطا امام مالک/ الطلاق 11 (31)، سنن الدارمی/الطلاق 7 (2317) (صحیح)»
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Explanation & Benefits
Hafiz Muhammad Ameen
(1) A woman’s seeking divorce from her husband is called khul‘. In such a case, if the husband wishes, he may demand the return of the dower (mahr) or other gifts he had given to his wife; however, he cannot take anything more than this from the woman’s personal property. After reconciliation, the husband will pronounce divorce, after which reconciliation (ruju‘) will not be possible; however, if both wish, they may remarry after the waiting period (‘iddah).

(2) Although the outward form of khul‘ resembles divorce (talaq) in that the husband pronounces divorce at the wife’s request, in reality, khul‘ is an annulment (fasakh) of the marriage. Therefore, its waiting period (‘iddah) is not three menstrual cycles, but one menstrual cycle. The purpose of this is istibra’ al-rahim, i.e., to ascertain whether the woman is pregnant or not. If menstruation occurs, it means she is not pregnant, and thus she may remarry. If menstruation does not occur, it means she is pregnant. In this case, she cannot remarry until the child is born. See: (Hadith: 3527, 3528). According to the Hanafis, khul‘ is considered a divorce (talaq), so its waiting period is three menstrual cycles, but this position is not correct.
Source: Sunan Nasa'i: Translation and Benefits by Shaykh Hafiz Muhammad Amin Hafizullah, Page: 3492