Nasai

The world, in and of itself, is not the objective, nor is it everlasting; rather, it is for temporary benefit. The best thing in this world is a righteous woman, because a husband’s relationship with his wife is constant. If she is good, then his entire worldly life will pass in peace and tranquility. But if the woman is not good, there will be constant conflict, an atmosphere of distress will prevail, and life will become miserable. A‘adhana Allah minha (May Allah protect us from it).

Hadith Commentary:

Benefits and Issues:
No matter what kind of ruler he is, one should listen to and obey his lawful commands. Of one’s own will and choice, a person who is mutilated or a slave cannot be appointed as a ruler, but if such a person seizes power by force or if the caliph appoints such a ruler, then his lawful commands must be accepted.

Benefits and Issues:

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It is permissible to benefit from worldly things in a lawful (halal) manner.
Renouncing the world is not permissible.

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Worldly things should be used in such a way that benefit is attained in the Hereafter.
A righteous woman is a great blessing because she proves to be a good advisor in worldly matters, a good life partner, and she also assists her husband in matters of the Hereafter.
In this way, both attain high ranks.
A righteous man is likewise such a blessing for a woman.

Benefit:
This hadith proves that when a man has firmly resolved to propose to a woman, and the family is agreeable to this match, then the man may look at the woman once before the engagement. It is regrettable that shamelessness has reached its extreme.