It is narrated from Hazrat Abu Bakr bin Abdur Rahman that when the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, married Sayyida Umm Salamah, may Allah be pleased with her, and morning came, the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said: "I will not do such a thing because of which you would be disgraced among your people. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven days, then I will stay seven days with each wife. And if you wish, I will stay with you for three days and then stay one day with each of the others." Sayyida Umm Salamah, may Allah be pleased with her, said: "Stay for three days."
Hadith Referenceموطا امام مالك رواية يحييٰ / كتاب النكاح / 1087
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:مرفوع صحيح
Hadith Takhrij«مرفوع صحيح، وأخرجه مسلم فى «صحيحه» برقم: 1460، وأبو داود فى «سننه» برقم: 2122، وابن ماجه فى «سننه» برقم: 1917، وسعيد بن منصور فى «سننه» برقم: 776، والبيهقي فى«سننه الكبير» برقم: 14805، والدارقطني فى «سننه» برقم: 3732، وعبد الرزاق فى «مصنفه» برقم: 10645، 10646، والطحاوي فى «شرح معاني الآثار» برقم: 4332، 4333، والطبراني فى «الكبير» 591، فواد عبدالباقي نمبر: 28 - كِتَابُ النِّكَاحِ-ح: 14»
Imam Malik, may Allah have mercy on him, said: This is the ruling according to us. Imam Malik, may Allah have mercy on him, said: If a man has married a woman and, besides her, he has other wives as well, then after those days he should stay with all of them equally. However, these days will be counted in favor of the new woman, because this is the right of the new woman.
Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) used to say that a virgin woman has seven days and a previously married woman has three days.
Hadith Referenceموطا امام مالك رواية يحييٰ / كتاب النكاح / 1088
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:موقوف صحيح
Hadith Takhrij«موقوف صحيح، وأخرجه البخاري فى «صحيحه» برقم: 5213، 5214، ومسلم فى «صحيحه» برقم: 1461، وابن حبان فى «صحيحه» برقم: 4208، 4209، وأبو داود فى «سننه» برقم: 2124، والترمذي فى «جامعه» برقم: 1139، والدارمي فى «مسنده» برقم: 2255، وابن ماجه فى «سننه» برقم: 1916، وسعيد بن منصور فى «سننه» برقم: 778، 779، والبيهقي فى«سننه الكبير» برقم: 14810، فواد عبدالباقي نمبر: 28 - كِتَابُ النِّكَاحِ-ح: 15»
Imam Malik, may Allah have mercy on him, said: This is the ruling according to us. Imam Malik, may Allah have mercy on him, said: If a man has married a woman and, besides her, he has other wives as well, then after those days he should stay with all of them equally. However, these days will be counted in favor of the new woman, because this is the right of the new woman.
Hadith Referenceموطا امام مالك رواية يحييٰ / كتاب النكاح / 1088